Throw away these worries, you can make a difference in the workplace, otherwise you will lose
The workplace is a highly competitive arena. In many cases, whether it is a rookie entering the workplace or an old fritter who has been working hard in the workplace for many years, they always think that they are not good or not, and they are always worried that they will be criticized by leaders and colleagues. Gossip, but I came to the workplace with this mentality. For a long time, because of this mentality, I have completely mixed in the lowest end of the workplace.
【1】Worry about yourself being inferior to others.
No matter when you use this sentence to imply yourself, it fully shows your lack of self-confidence, and you also unconsciously imply that your skills are not as good as others, your appearance is not as good as others, your intelligence is not as good as others. In the end, because of this unconscious suggestion, you not only dare not try, but also dare not take a step forward. Just imagine, if you don't even have the courage to take the first step, how can you keep up with others, how can you talk about getting ahead in the workplace, you say that you are not afraid of who will lie on the ground at the bottom.
[2] Worry about being unpopular.
To be honest, no matter where you are, if you have this concern, it is even less ridiculous. You don’t try at all, you don’t take the initiative to communicate with others, you worry and fear that others don’t like you, don’t accept you, or ignore you and laugh at you. As a result, in the process of interacting with others, you don’t Dare to take the initiative to attack, let alone take the initiative to move forward, at that time you can only be left out alone, or shrink in a corner. I believe that the more you are like this, the less people will sympathize and take care of you. Therefore, in a highly competitive workplace, if you want to realize your dreams and pursuits, you must be upright and upright in your conduct in the workplace. Even if you are ridiculed, you must take the first step. Your colleagues envy you behind your back.
【3】Worry that you will fail in your work.
Did you know that in reality, those successful people, especially those who do business, according to a survey by a research agency found that before these successful people succeed, they each experience an average of 3-5 failures. They will not stop because of worry and fear in the process of hard work. Why? Because these successful people see setbacks as the cornerstone of success. They understand that three steps forward, two steps back, and the final result is one step forward. Therefore, they stood firm without fear and fought their way out. Therefore, you who are working hard in the workplace still have a lot of time and opportunities. You must believe that you can do it too!
[4] Worry about being rejected.
If you have the opportunity, if you have the conditions, you can interview the successful colleagues or successful bosses around you to see if they are worried or afraid of being attacked when dealing with others or doing something. Others refuse, I believe they have. To be honest, everyone is more or less worried about being rejected. This is a very normal psychology. Only when you are worried about being rejected will you think of countermeasures and how to deal with such rejection. Whether it is in the workplace or in life, no one wants to be rejected or ignored. Whether it is daily communication or asking for help, everyone hopes that they can be valued, accepted and cared for, but if they want to be accepted by others, To be valued by others and respected by others, then you must let yourself grow up quickly and make yourself strong enough.
[5] Worry about the unknown and the realm.
No matter at any time, no one said that the things or things or a certain field they were facing were never familiar to familiar. If you don’t dare to try and start in the field, then these unknown people, things and fields will always be unfamiliar to you. This is like a scientific research job. If you are worried and afraid of unfamiliar fields or things, then He could never be a scientist, at best a handyman in a laboratory. Therefore, when working hard in the workplace, we must keep in mind a sentence we are all familiar with: difficulties are like springs, if you are weak, they will be strong. The more you worry and the more afraid you are, you will never get out of the bottom.
