In the workplace, it is necessary to choose the right time to ask for people to do things! !
If we ask someone to do something, it is best to first understand the current situation of the other party, and then take the next step.
step action.
- Understand the other person's emotions
When asking for help, you must pay attention to the emotional state of the other person at the time. If the other party is in a bad mood and doesn't want to talk to people at all, and you go to trouble others to help you do things at this time, nine out of ten you will be rejected. If the other party is in a low mood, but still gives you face and says to you, "I'm sorry, I'm in a bad mood today, but tell me..." Then no matter how enthusiastic he is at this time, you'd better talk about it at another time. Because at this time, although he said so, but he was very likely to be very reluctant in his heart, there is no need for you to be a blind person. If the other person was in a state of high emotions and excitement at the time, then you must seize this rare opportunity. Because when people are happy to make requests, most of them will receive good results.
- Know how busy the other party is
Before asking someone to do something, you need to know if the other person is busy at work. If he's very busy, you'd better not beg him right away. For example: if he answers the phone and looks at his watch while talking to you, he must be very busy. At this time, you'd better not cause trouble to others, lest others think you are unreasonable, so that they will reject you; if he is concentrating If you think about the problem, then you'd better not disturb him, so as not to disturb his train of thought and make him angry. In short, when the other party is in a busy situation, rather than bite the bullet and hit a nail, it is better to wait for a while, wait until the time is right before going to ask someone else.
- Look at the specific time
For example, it's time to eat, you'd better not ask for someone; if the other person is on vacation or just back from vacation, don't go to him. Because during these times, you talk to him about work and some irrelevant issues, and he will probably refuse. Anything he has rejected, even if you mention it again when he is happy, it will inevitably cause unpleasantness, and it may also leave a difficult impression on others.
- Choose the right occasion
The specific place and environment of the applicant is also an aspect that should be considered. Some things have to wait until the other person goes to work, and talk about it in his office; some things have to wait until the other person gets off work, and talk about it in private at his residence; The more effective it is; and some things have to be told when there are others around, and the more others hear, the better the success. In short, it is very important to choose the right time when asking for help. In many cases, the success of what you are asking for depends on your ability to control the timing of your request. When asking others to do things, try to pick a suitable time, go to the other party when he is in a good mood, and then take the opportunity to put forward your own meaning, so that the other party can readily agree to your request when he is happy.