Even if you are a hero and dare to do these things, you will definitely become a 'thorn in the eye' of your colleagues.

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Working hard in the workplace, you are very particular about your words, actions, words and deeds, but if you rely on yourself to be a meritorious person, or a celebrity around your leader, you will often show the following behaviors at work. Said that sooner or later you will become a "thorn in the eye" of your colleagues.

[1] Show off.

As a hero, in the team, he must have made a certain performance or a person with detached performance and status. In the process of getting along with colleagues, he does not know how to keep a low profile, and he does not know how to treat others with humility. Therefore, in daily work, relying on his own performance, Relying on the fact that he is a hero, no matter whether he understands or does not understand, he likes to show off in front of others, he likes to show that he knows more than others, and he also stimulates others with words, saying that others do not understand this. I believe that you have just finished showing off like this. In addition to giving you stares, others may also say that you are nothing more than this. For this reason, the more you sell at work, the more you will be hated.

[2] sarcasm.

To be a hero in the team, you must have your own brush or skills in your work, but as a hero, you always think that you are better than others, you always think that you are much stronger than others, and whenever you encounter someone who is not as good as you When people ask you for advice, when you ask for help, you don't try your best to help others, but sneer at others. Even if you help others, you don't forget to be sarcastic to others from time to time in the process. . This approach will not only make you thankless, but also will be hated by others.

[3] Show off.

No matter whether you are a meritorious minister or your outstanding performance, you don’t need to show off, everyone knows that you are a meritorious minister of the company, but you are afraid that others will not know, or you hope that by showing others the side that you feel is superior, Get the envious eyes of colleagues around you and satisfy your poor vanity. Even if others don't say anything at the time, it is estimated that others will be disgusted and vomit as soon as they turn around. For this reason, in addition to looking for disgust from others, this act of showing off will definitely look for jealousy from others.

[4] Aloof.

In the work, I found that those who are considered to be members of the team have some people who deliberately give others a cold feeling in order to distance themselves from everyone, or to show that they are different from others. He is indifferent to the little things in the world, as if he is the only one left in the whole world, and if he does some small things, he seems to lose his worth. As a result, this kind of person seems to give people a cool feeling. In fact, everyone will gradually alienate him in their daily work. Even if they are assigned work, they are not willing to partner with such a person. I believe that it will not be long before this kind of person will be hated by everyone because of his arrogance, and he will change from a meritorious official to an unattended loner in the workplace, and slowly "die" alone.

Workplace perception: If you are walking in the workplace, if you rely on yourself as a "hero", rely on your identity, and rely on your status, and choose the above methods to deal with others, everyone will not only hate you, but will definitely see you as a thorn in the flesh. , finally divide and then fast. Therefore, in addition to cultivating your own work skills in the workplace, you must not forget to cultivate your own virtues in the workplace at the same time.

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