What is it like to bring a baby to work? He said he was very happy, but he was so sad behind his back!
My wife works in a bank. This weekend, she and her colleague Xiaomei attended work together. Xiaomei's 8-month-old child is very strong. This week, Xiaomei's mother went on a trip, and the nanny at home insisted on taking a vacation this weekend. She had no choice but to take the child to the outlet. The little guy is 20 pounds. He basically has to hold it all the time when he is awake. Anyone who has brought a baby knows what it is like to hold a child of more than 20 pounds for a long time. But Xiaomei has always said that she is very happy and her husband loves her very much. After giving birth to the child, the mother-in-law also likes the child very much. Her mother also helps with the child at ordinary times, but she occasionally goes out to play on weekends, and the nanny is usually very special to the child. Well, there was always a smile on her face, but there was obvious exhaustion from her brows.
Xiaomei's husband's family is from Guangdong. The family is in business and earns a lot of money. Although her husband loves her, the situation on their side is more patriarchal. The mother-in-law made it clear that she must have a son, because Xiaomei gave birth to a princess in her first child. Of course, she must be born next. None of them have given birth to a son, so the possibility of a son from another wife in the south is not impossible. Because she gave birth to a daughter, her mother-in-law said that she would not come to help with the baby. If it was a son, it would be another matter.
Xiaomei's mother, when she usually asks Xiaomei for money, runs very fast and asks her to help arrange her parents' relatives to work in her husband's company, which is very positive. But she has to bring her granddaughter, and the family has hired a nanny, she only needs to help to look at it. Occasionally, when the nanny is inconvenient, she can help to hug, and she does not need her to cook or do housework. took her life. Usually, my husband often goes out to play. Even if the babysitter is not around and the daughter has to take the baby to work, she will go to play with her, and she must not delay her play schedule.
As for the nanny, the monthly salary is 5,000, and she usually buys various things for her. There are 4 days off in January, and the treatment is higher than that of white-collar workers in many companies. The job is to bring a baby. The meal only needs to be for her and the child. However, the time off the nanny asked for must be on the weekend. Xiaomei negotiated with her, because her schedule might not be able to take the weekend off. She asked her to rest when she had a break, and the nanny refused to do it. And Xiaomei is also afraid of falling out with the babysitter because the babysitter usually treats the children well. If the babysitter is at home alone, it will not be good for the children. So choose to bring your own baby to work!
Conclusion: The family conditions are good, but I have to take the baby to work. I say that I am very happy, and there is a deliberate smile on my face. But just like at lunch time, because the child kept crying and didn't eat lunch, others felt sad when they saw it. The attitude of the mother-in-law, the attitude of the mother, and the strength of the nanny have made this professional elite full of exhaustion. If the second child has a daughter, it is impossible to imagine this day!
Netizens, do you think Xiaomei is happy? Comments welcome!