How can I communicate better with strangers? Teach you 3 tricks to easily chat with strangers smoothly!
Many people are more introverted and are not good at communicating with strangers. They feel shy when facing strangers. When they see others chatting happily, they want to join the conversation, but they often don’t know how to speak or how to make strangers talk. I like myself, so I tend to be indifferent when interacting with strangers. If things go on like this, the social circle will be very narrow, which is not conducive to the development of the workplace.
So how can we communicate better with strangers? Share 3 tricks today, you can easily chat with strangers smoothly when you do it well!
1. Prepare a few ice-breaking words and say them in a serious manner
With strangers, many people feel uncomfortable because of the lack of understanding on both sides. If you can break the ice well and ease the atmosphere, then the topic will be easier to open. for example:
Brother Li, is my makeup not good today, you dare not look at me directly? (joking type)
Mr. Wang, your skin is so good, how do you usually take care of it? (for the compliment type)
Hello, my name is Wang Fengwu! Many people ask me why I am called such a name? When my mother gave birth to me: The day before, I dreamed that a phoenix flew to the plane tree, and I got my name from it! I always thought, if I dreamed of the rooster flying on the banana tree, what would my name be? (name field subtype)
2. Share experience
Appropriate compliments and compliments, and then let the other party share their work and life experiences. If you can evoke common memories, or if you can have similar experiences, everyone can have emotional resonance, then the topic will continue to flow. For example, places to travel, beautiful scenery and delicious food. For example, the games played by the post-80s are full of memories and endless topics. For example, what the other party has accomplished in a certain way, you can learn from it, praise and share experience, and the other party will like it very much. For example, the food in the city, the topic of food lovers can be talked non-stop.
3. Screen out the topics that the other party is interested in from a wide range of topics.
Chatting with strangers often starts without knowing what topic the other person is interested in. We can try to eat, wear, live, travel, and entertain ourselves. If we encounter a topic that the other party is interested in, the other party will clearly show his desire to express it. We will give most of the speaking time to the other party in time, so that the other party can speak freely, and we also guide the other party to let him be interested in the other party. As the topic expands, we listen attentively and give appropriate feedback, then they will think we are good chatters.
Conclusion: If you want to have a good chat with a stranger, you must first break the ice and eliminate the tension between the two parties, and then seek a little emotional resonance from similar experiences and experiences. With emotional resonance, it is easier to build a sense of trust. Then, according to the other person's preferences, talk about the topics they are interested in. Do these points, and the chatting process cooperates with appropriate body language and facial expressions, then chatting with strangers can definitely be done easily.
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