Today, I saw a dubbing video of Journey to the West, and Bajie said: I have thousands of WeChat friends, and my connections are very wide, but when I need help, who will ignore me? The world is so hot!

Tang Seng replied: Do you think that the more people you know, the better your connections? Don't be a fool, you see that your monkey brother has so few WeChat friends, but you can always call for wind and rain. What does this mean?

Bajia: Brother Monkey, why are you talking about this?

Wukong: Listen, when I was a monkey, I could only play with a group of monkeys. After I have learned a skill, I can be brothers with the Bull Demon King, and I can chat with the Dragon King to grab treasures. Before the havoc in the Heavenly Palace, all the gods did not take me seriously, but when I was in the Heavenly Palace, the King Tota Li respected me. Before I arrived at Leiyin Temple, I paid homage to the wisdom of the Bodhisattva, but after I was named the Buddha of Fighting Victory, the Bodhisattva and I became good friends!

What do you think when you see this?

We have our own circle of contacts in work and life. Many people are keen to make friends, add WeChat, chat, try their best to get closer to the big V, and show how awesome the people they know are in front of others. Who can I chat with over dinner. But when they really encounter difficulties and need help, these so-called acquaintances will not take care of them at all, and they feel that these people who have worked hard to make friends are not enough friends.

Friends are often built on the basis of reciprocity, and a relationship with a huge gap in strength cannot exchange for what we expect. Only real strength can be exchanged for effective contacts. There is a saying that goes well with multiple friends. This sentence actually talks about the essence of friends. We make friends to get help from each other in the future. Although this You may not need the help of the other party all your life, but if the other party can help you when you need it, this will be a great guarantee for you. People who can make a lot of effective contacts are powerful or have great potential. If you don’t insist on making breakthroughs, the effective contacts you make will also fail over time. But those who are truly strong will have friends wherever they go.

Therefore, in our spare time, what we should do more is to take the time to actively study and strive to improve ourselves. Just think of Wukong, if he doesn't study art, he will always be the boss of a few little monkeys, and will not do anything. We also have to work hard to improve ourselves and enrich ourselves. When our abilities are strong, we will have the opportunity to be like Wukong, get powerful network resources, and have the opportunity to go to heaven and earth, slay demons and demons, and dance out our own wonderful life.

What do you judges think? Comments and replies are welcome!