Yes, yes, other people's success depends on relationships, if you don't succeed, it's just bad luck

(Original title: You are not lucky enough, you are not hard enough)

Introduction: You envy the success of others and think they are lucky, but in fact you cannot see the efforts behind them.

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I know a post-90s girl who graduated with a master's degree. While working in a company, she is preparing for the civil service and public institution exams. One day, she suddenly said to me very sadly: "A good friend of mine has been admitted to an institution, and she is very lucky because there are not many people applying for the test." I know that she is only sad for herself, lamenting that she has paid There is so much to pursue, but what you ask for is not available, while others get it so easily.

This kind of attitude is very similar to himself back then, lamenting his own misfortune amid the success of others. After many years, I have had an epiphany. The so-called misfortune is just that I haven't worked hard enough, not the injustice of fate.

about work

Some people have been working for nearly ten years, but they are still small employees; some people have just stepped into the workplace, and they can make rapid progress and are frequently favored by leaders.

Most of the "little staff" are dissatisfied, and they often attribute the reason to their bad luck, or the unfairness of their leaders, and they cannot see their own efforts and abilities. At the same time, they will also be disdainful of those who are promoted, and some even complain behind their backs, attributing their promotion to various strange reasons other than ability.

"Little staff" may never see the day and night efforts of the promoted, their full devotion to their work, their comprehensive study after work, and their deep understanding of communication and coexistence with leaders. Dao... also didn't realize that he had been employed for ten years, but it was ten years, not one decade.

Maybe you work hard, but you are always unknown; maybe you are very capable, but you are never good at showing; maybe you are very old, but you are really not passionate enough... Instead of complaining and complaining about others, why not calm down and be good Planning your career and then spending a lot of time making yourself an expert in your field and making leaders feel indispensable?

about love

Some people have been going around for a long time, but they are still alone and have not found their home;

When a single person is disappointed and almost desperate, he always thinks: "I'm not worse than those people, why are they all right? Is it so difficult for me to find someone who is in love?" In addition to being good, there are also reasons for yourself. Maybe you haven't tried hard enough to find it, maybe you haven't made yourself good enough.

When there is no love, work hard, so that life has no worries; live well, let yourself be bright and beautiful every day; study hard, let life be full of more possibilities. Every day, I am full of vitality, and I appear in the sight of others with the best posture. Maybe, at the next corner, I will meet the other half that I have loved for a long time.

About Wealth

Some people, after working for three to five years, can buy a car and a house with their own ability; some people work for nearly ten years, but they are still empty-handed and full of moonlight.

When it comes to saving money, the moonlight people say, "I can't save money because I earn too little." When it comes to managing money, they will say, "I earn so little that I have no money to justify." Is that really true? Have you eaten all over the streets because you are too lazy to cook? Have you bought a certain treasure and certain east because of a whim? Do you dedicate a lot of your spare time to games and bubble dramas?

When you are envious of other people's fame and fortune, do you also start to reflect? You know, no one gets it easily. Even luck only favors those who are prepared. If you are still struggling on the poverty line, if you are still empty-handed, please don’t put your hope in the so-called luck, please learn financial management, time management, control resources, and learn to increase income and reduce expenditure.

When you are young, put away all your complaints and imbalances, put on the attitude of a struggler, work hard until you are powerless, work hard until you are moved, and finally become the lucky one in the eyes of others.