Don't cover up your laziness in thinking with diligence in action. Are your efforts in the right direction?

Introduction: Don't use diligence in action to cover up your laziness in thinking. What makes you grow quickly and even succeed is never hard work, but way of thinking.

Shh, I know you want to go a thousand miles too.

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Every class reunion is an asura field.

You choose to escape like an ostrich,

Just because I can't look gorgeous and dress up to attend.

Why did you once start with the same line or even be inferior to yourself,

Now there are all kinds of lively colors and fragrances.

You rise and fall every day,

I can't see any growth in performance.

I can't even see where my life is going.

classmate, do you know?

What makes you grow quickly and even succeed is never just hard work.

It's the way of thinking.

For example, the following profound truths are easily overlooked.

1 The Secret of the Law of Averages

Safety in numbers and law of average.

Whether the article is on the first page of the short book,

Is it to be admitted to a key university, or to pass the GRE with a high score,

Is it a promotion and salary increase, talking about a big customer, or the performance of your small business is getting more and more amazing...

Although uncontrollable factors such as luck must exist,

But there is a secret:

When you keep repeating something for a considerable number of times,

The Law of Averages comes into play:

The more you do, the higher the level, the greater the odds of winning.

At that time, you will have a general judgment and grasp of the effect of your own actions.

Rather than relying entirely on fate and luck.

Do it over and over again, don't be afraid to make a mistake.

Because we always make mistakes.

It is more necessary to correctly recognize the error-

It is but a necessary stage on the right path.

Sometimes even the more mistakes you make, the sooner you get back on the right track.

People who have really achieved great things,

Who didn't make mistakes along the way.

If you are too afraid to do it,

It's true that you can't go wrong, but you're never going to get great results either.

2 Find the right direction quickly and make rapid progress

( 1 ) Correct habits should be developed at the initial stage

Whether learning to swim, play ball, or a foreign language,

Limb muscles, oral muscles and even "thinking muscles",

All need to develop habits on the correct trajectory and pattern,

Coupled with deliberate practice, can really effectively produce results.

For example, to learn a foreign language from zero basis, it is best not to learn it by yourself.

Standard pronunciation, basic grammar, etc.,

All need to set a correct benchmark by the teacher from the beginning.

Once the road deviates, it is difficult not to grow disabled.

( 2 ) If you are not sure, ask for advice in time

Blindly pondering whether I may hit a wall or find a way out,

Waste your time and affect team efficiency.

In the event of a difficult problem based on experience or requiring a case-by-case analysis,

Please resolutely ask your seniors for advice in a timely manner.

(3) Imitation is the fastest way to progress

Piano, writing, and everyone's initial babble...

Everything starts with imitation.

You have to imitate first, then practice makes perfect.

3 Be with everything that has energy

someone said,

The people you know and the books you read,

Shaped who you are now.

Some people say,

a person's salary,

It's about the average of the 6 closest people around you.

Whether it is a person or a book,

It is precisely because they have considerable energy and influence,

Only now has an unusual status in the eyes of others.

Please come closer and learn more,

It must be better than your empty eyes and an empty head and no idea where you are going.

After all, taking the law is about getting one of the tops, and taking the law is about getting the bottom.

And don't forget-

When you feel you have done your best, do a little more:

!

Because if you want to be successful

It is not a task that has to be accomplished with exceptional difficulty,

It's about accomplishing everyday tasks with extraordinary excellence.

A little more each day, for many days.

4 Focus on high-value things

There are four types of work patterns in daily life:

1 Doing the wrong thing with the wrong attitude.

The result: catastrophic vicious consequences.

Loss of self-worth, loss of judgment on the development of things.

2 Doing the wrong thing with the right attitude.

Result: waste a lot of time and energy, suffer many setbacks and blows, but probably never reach the real other side.

3 Doing the right thing with the wrong attitude.

Result: Inefficiency has slowly achieved some phased results, but it has gradually drifted away from the final goal.

4 Do the right thing with the right attitude.

Results: Efficient achievement of goals, meeting or even exceeding expectations.

Except for 4, the others are all corners on the road of life.

sensible approach,

It is to spend 80% of your time and energy doing 20% ​​of the things that are profitable and high-yield.

Give up those that take a lot of time and have uncertain returns.

So what is the "right thing"?

talented? Interested in? Profitable?

In my opinion, nothing is more than the intersection of the above three categories.

Or as I always say:

In the wrong direction, efforts are in vain.

5 The more hesitation, the farther away from success

Many people often ask, how can I significantly increase my income?

The answer is: do it now.

Yes, just do it.

And do it RIGHT NOW !

But why do the vast majority of people fail to fully devote 80% of their time to doing productive and revenue-generating things?

Important reasons: Worry and fear of failure.

And the greatest talent of successful people,

It's that they have the ability to make themselves act immediately.

Because they know one truth:

Completion is more important than perfection.

Have you heard of the "law of turbulence" -

You just graduated/worked/entered a new industry that you don't understand at all...

Being caught up in the torrent of life without any direction or preparation,

Then he floated up and down without feeling at all, and drifted with the current,

The more I feel powerless to fight back, the more I have no idea and motivation to change...

But time will not wait for you.

After a while you finally wake up,

But he found himself about to be swept under the cliff by the turbulence.

Before falling off the cliff, everything was too late.

So you have to understand:

The best time to act is now.

The best preparation is to let go.

Stop saying you're serious, or that you want to do it enough,

The only test to see if you pay enough attention to this matter,

is your action.

6 Difficulties always bully the soft and fear the hard

In the past few years after graduation, review the experience of setbacks or triumphs in the past,

I wonder if you have found such a rule:

What seems difficult at first will become easier as you work on it;

Easy things always appear difficult at first.

This scares off at least 80% of people.

It's no wonder that those who persist until victory are always in the minority.

Dear students, please note,

Please straighten the seat back and sit up straight and put away the small table, a new wave of difficulties will come ahead~

Well, the difficulties keep coming and gradually escalating,

This is the normal state of life.

I would say,

More than the difficulty itself can determine success or failure,

It's your attitude and actions to deal with difficulties.

Every difficulty is an excuse for giving up in the eyes of ordinary people.

In the eyes of successful people, it is a good opportunity for growth and tempering.

Keep going, there is a way.

Let go and do it, take a step.

form and continuously increase kinetic energy,

It is the most effective way to overcome difficulties.

you run away from trouble,

As everyone knows, after someone overcomes a difficulty, they will take the initiative to seek greater difficulties.

In this way, we constantly train ourselves to overcome difficulties and have the courage and ability.

Maybe you will say: Perverted, it's so tiring to ask for trouble~

Cough cough... This classmate,

Tired only shows that your life is going uphill.

Life is a process of fighting monsters and upgrading.

How many brains, how many stamina, how much equipment,

5 years after graduation, I already knew it.

I know life is not easy, and I know you are working hard.

That's why you shouldn't just keep your head down and hurry.

because,

Compared to busy walking with your head down,

More importantly, recognize the direction and look up at the road.