Are you 'disliked' or 'bad at it'?

Introduction: If you don't like your job, is it really because you don't like it? Maybe because of bad work. Recognize reality and face your true self.

My cousin who works in the maternity and baby industry brought a small toy to look at Fu. He said that it was the leftovers from the activity. Seeing that the quality was good, he asked for a few for Laifu to play. During the period, he also curled up with Laifu The comrade acted like a spoiled brat and said that he didn't get off work until after 12 o'clock the night before working overtime to do the report. He is very tired as a model worker!

I inserted a sentence and said: I can't see it, you are so active?

My cousin replied with an arrogant expression: There are so many reports, I have to handle everything, I need it for work, I can't do it. oops! Tell you you won't understand. Hurry up and get me something delicious~ Looking at him with a proud face when he talks about his work reminds me of him who was still an intern a year ago.

At that time, the first time he encountered something he couldn't handle at work, it was still a bunch of things he couldn't handle. Let him, who has always been confident, think about running away, call his mother, and say that he doesn't want to work there, he doesn't think it suits him, he doesn't like it.

Originally, he was planning to do an internship in the credit industry. He had friends in that industry, but it was a job that was based on performance. Before there was no performance, the wages were pitifully low, and it might not be possible to get food.

His mother couldn't accept this kind of work. She felt that her son had finally graduated, so how could he continue to ask the family for money? So she started looking for a relationship to see who could help her son arrange a job. Finally, with the help of his cousin, he went to the company where his cousin worked, and the cousin officially entered the mother and baby industry.

Unfortunately, just a few days after he left, he took his boss to Thailand for a trip, and he went on a trip after explaining the main work content to him. He left him to the regional boss, so he stumbled and started his career without understanding a lot of things. Since the boss who brought him left him to the regional boss, he could only ask the regional boss if he had any questions. But he is also a person with strong self-esteem. Seeing that the regional boss is busy, he is embarrassed to ask more. As a result, because he does not understand, it is easy to make mistakes.

I still remember his confused look when I was assigned to do his ideological work. He said that it was not because he couldn’t bear the hardships, but he didn’t know how to do it. He felt that he was not suitable for this industry, and he didn’t like it either. He couldn't tell the exact details.

At the time, I suggested that he should go to school for three months and learn everything he can learn. Even if he really wants to leave after three months, he may know more than others. If, after three months, he feels that he can stick to it, he will try to do it for half a year and then consider these issues. If he still doesn't like it or is not suitable, then he will leave. It wouldn't hurt him to stay a few more months anyway.

I don't know if his mentality changed, or he brought his boss back later. After that, I didn't hear him say that he wanted to resign or that he didn't want to do it. What I knew was the annual meeting in half a year, because The performance was outstanding, he was remembered by the boss and turned positive in advance.

Now I can hear very few complaints from him that he works overtime again, or has to go to dinner on weekends, etc., but after complaining, he will show off where their boss took him to eat delicious food again, or He does several activities a day, how amazing~

Now he is no longer concerned about whether this job is suitable for him, because he can do it well. and was recognized.

Many times, we will say that we don't like this thing, we don't like this job, in fact, it's not that we don't like it, but we don't have the ability to do it well.

Cousin, in the early days of the job, he was not able to do the job well, so he was depressed, he was frustrated, he thought he was not suitable for the job, especially disliked it; but then he took the time of complaining to study, go to work, do If you are good at it, you will naturally be good at it. If you are good at it, you will naturally do it well. If you do it well, interest will come. When it comes to the back, he never said that he is not suitable for such things.

We are also the same, before defining whether we dislike a job, we need to consider whether we have the ability to do the job well, if it is because we don't do it well, we don't like it. Then you have to consider another thing, do you have other better options, if not, then try to do it until you do it well, because you have no other options.