Maybe you have been sighing that you are capable but unable to express yourself, and you have never been able to achieve your career expectations; maybe you, as a manager, think that you have no prestige and momentum in front of employees, and you cannot gain the recognition of employees; maybe you are introverted and also Want to integrate into the team, but just can't express yourself easily, often not afraid or self-defeating?

If you agree with these comparisons, then you need to make yourself change. Although eloquence and speech skills are not necessary for life and work, having good eloquence and speech skills can better realize your own value and let Life and work are easy.

Before sharing dry goods, we must have a clear understanding of eloquence and speech. Don't think that eloquence and speech are so high. We only need to achieve it according to our own life or work needs. Wanting to be a master of eloquence and speech will only make us more afraid.

Therefore, calm down and do the following 5 points, you can quickly improve your eloquence and presentation skills:

1. Position your current self

Positioning is divided into two steps. The first step is to recognize your current situation, such as personality, experience, experience, etc. Only by recognizing yourself can you know where your shortcomings are, and you can better improve.

Just like some people are eloquent when chatting in private, but their minds go blank when they stand in front of the stage; some people are introverted and dare not express their opinions at any time, just because they are afraid of being denied, and so on.

So the first step must be to recognize yourself, and the second step is to clarify your goals, whether you want to have normal interpersonal communication, or you can stand in front of the stage to give a speech, or become a master of eloquence and speech.

2. Improve self-confidence and overcome tension

In my personal opinion, lack of self-confidence means that you have a strong sense of self-protection, and you are afraid of being hurt. After all, everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and they also have their own circles (people gather together). If you are not in your own circles Dare to express, in addition to fear of being denied, is to fear the rupture of interpersonal relationships.

But since they can come together (family, friends, colleagues), in addition to fate, it is more consistency (character, ability, experience, etc.), so finding more common ground is also conducive to improving self-confidence and overcoming tension.

You don’t need to worry about relationships that are too fragile, and you don’t have to worry about those who are very strong, just improve your self-confidence.

3. If you don’t know what to say, just talk about yourself, to arouse emotional resonance

Talking about yourself has two advantages. First, most people like to listen to other people’s stories, especially in privacy. Second, because talking about yourself is the thing you are most familiar with, it will be emotionally rich and smooth, and your emotions will be good. Better to infect others and thus resonate.

4. Improvisation with language formulas

Any speech will have a certain language formula, otherwise it will make others feel disorganized, lose the focus, and be distracted, or the bland narrative of the past will make others boring. Therefore, mastering the structure of the narrative and knowing how to analyze and summarize can make the expression more concise and effective, and grasp the psychology of the audience.

Secondly, proper improvisation is the icing on the cake, which can enrich the content, increase the effect and expressiveness of the speech, especially the emotional substitution, which will make the speech full of stickiness and psychological orientation.

5. Body language is not only the icing on the cake, but also the help

Body language is always indispensable in speeches, even if it's just a back and forth swing of gestures, we can often see big names giving speeches, even if they are standing or sitting, their gestures will move from time to time, and their eyes will go back and forth. Focus, the purpose is not only to attract attention, but also to keep the content from being too boring.

Therefore, we can combine the content of the speech and conduct action simulation exercises. Of course, it will not be so exaggerated in a formal speech, but it can make our actions more calm and shorten the distance of the listeners.

To sum up, if you want to improve your eloquence and speech skills, you must first be confident. Only in this way can you speak. Otherwise, there is nothing to talk about eloquence and speech. Only when you dare to speak and practice more can you better improve your mentality and eloquence.

The last point is that what suits you is the best. There are many great speakers, you can learn from it, and you can draw inferences from one case, but don’t follow it blindly.