When walking in the workplace, you can see through the clothes at first glance, and emotional communication cannot be deleted.
Once upon a time, this jingle was circulated in the workplace. In fact, there are various quotations in the workplace, which seem to make sense. In the end, it was discovered that it was poisonous chicken soup.
And this jingle is more about communication between the opposite sex, learn to make up, dress, and properly add some communication skills, you will get more help in front of the opposite sex, especially women who can act like a spoiled child.
But what I'm talking about today is exactly the opposite. A good first impression is really important, and you will even get significant help in the early stage. The label will also be full of positive expectations.
And once the performance is slightly worse later, there will be a huge gap in the hearts of outsiders, which will lead to the collapse of the character design. On the contrary, it is not as good as the initial impression, but gradually performs well.
With a beautiful appearance and good conversation, it is indeed easier to add points in the workplace, but after all, the workplace is not a play, but people who get along day and night, even longer than staying with family members.
With the gradual advancement of time, the impression that can be maintained by appearance is extremely fragile. Once it is discovered that this person is actually relatively superficial, the impression will change from good to bad or second, and it will even directly affect the career.
Li Xiaofei is a newcomer in the workplace, but because he is good-looking and acts like a spoiled child, he "captured" the hearts of too many men in the early days. Whether it is in work or in life, as long as he calls his brother, basically everything is done. Can settle.
The key is that he has a good image and temperament, so he is also a celebrity in front of the boss, and even follows the leader to attend some occasions, especially Li Xiaofei's observation. In some cases, using his coquetry has indeed helped the leader resolve many crises.
However, at an important meeting that followed, Li Xiaofei suffered a downfall. It was because he made his own decisions and went to meet a major client alone. There was a trace of unhappiness in the hearts of the first customers.
In the subsequent negotiation process, due to Li Xiaofei's lack of professional knowledge, he only knew how to act coquettishly and cutely, which made the client think that the company despised the other party and showed no sincerity at all, and even a decent person did not attend.
After this big business collapsed, Li Xiaofei's status also plummeted, and the subsequent neglect made him feel boring, and he automatically resigned soon after.
Therefore, it is especially important to improve one's inner self. The appearance is the initial impression, but the inner one is the core of a person. Only by taking care of both can you gain a place in the cruel workplace.
Of course, some people think that as long as their abilities are strong, they don't need to pay attention to external manifestations at all, but the result is just the opposite. If you don't even have a first impression, how can you show your super abilities? Take jobs that don't communicate with people, but the reality is really too little.
We must be good at recognizing ourselves, have a clear position on ourselves, understand what our strengths are, and make up for our shortcomings when we give full play to our strengths, so that we can go further in our career path.
When walking in the workplace, you can see through the look at the dress and the second. You can't delete emotional communication, you can't just look at one, and ignore the most important part, your inner self-cultivation, and let your inner match your outer performance.