The workplace is long, to respect your future self, please treat yourself well today

In the training class before, I often said that "Today's success comes from your efforts yesterday." In fact, there have been too many similar episodes in many film and television dramas, and ten years later, I will persuade my current self.

In the training class, I will also ask them to reflect on themselves. After all, employees have different ages and educational backgrounds. In addition to comparing others, they can also compare themselves.

For example, what is more of the self today than the self of last year? Savings, ability, level, etc., most people seem to find that they can't find anything except their age. Of course, losing weight is a success. After all, having a healthy body is the capital of the revolution.

So in the long career, we always think that we are moving forward, but after a few years, we find that we have been standing still, and even the road collapsed due to our own standing, and we can no longer find a broad career path. Walking on the trail, of course, because the trail is not easy to walk, through my own efforts, I built a highway, but after all, it is rare.

Therefore, we don’t expect how good life is and how ambitious the workplace is. At least we must respect our future self, so that we don’t have nowhere to go. Then please be kind to today’s self, learn and improve your ability, exercise your body, manage your life, etc. , to make the future more fulfilling and beautiful.

So for the workplace alone, how should we treat ourselves well today?

First: staged selection, but all around a backbone

Different stages of life should have different choices, such as money, platform, self-training, etc. Different demands at different stages should not be generalized. If you ask for it at the stage you should not ask for, your future self will pay for today.

They say that standing at thirty means that you should have your own career direction at the age of thirty, and stop being too distracted. When I was young, I engaged in some industries and saw the world, which is not necessarily a bad thing, but everything should be based on my own backbone. Otherwise, when I got to the stable stage, I found that everything needed to start all over again.

So no matter what your current demands are, don’t lose your original intention. Once you lose your original intention, it is like a ship that has lost its lighthouse and can no longer find a port to dock.

But there is a basic principle, in order to see the world and exercise ability when you are young, give full play to your own strengths in middle age, do a good job, and seek stability in old age, of course, it is only for most people.

Second: always maintain a certain pressure and passion

Never lose pressure and passion at any time. This is the most basic spirit of a person. It is often seen that some elderly people are still in their 80s, and some people are already old at the age of 60. Lost stress and passion.

The joke that "the brain rusts when you don't use it" is not a joke, but a fact. They all say that the first three years of pregnancy are stupid, and the main thing is that the brain has lost the ability to think, and it can't adapt to the rhythm of society.

The same is true of jobs. When this job can no longer bring you pressure and passion, it is better to break it when it is broken. Unless it is an iron job, you will continue to be fired in the future.

Third: Understand the definition of giving

As the old saying goes, "taking a loss is a blessing", and our parents are also telling us not to talk back to the leaders in the company, and the same is true with the old employees. There is no harm in doing more work, and suffering is a blessing.

However, it is obviously not suitable for today's society. In the past, the job was more of an iron job and within the system, and now the competition in the society is so fierce. It depends on your personal business ability. The ability is poor. The more honest you are, the earlier you will be eliminated. The ability is strong. , weak emotional intelligence, may not be eliminated, but all aspects of welfare can never keep up.

So we have to share the loss. If the loss is helpful to the individual, for example, it can exercise one's ability in a certain area or make more money, then it's okay to eat more of the loss. Don't treat overtime like a tiger.

If it's just chores, you should be able to integrate your workplace relationships at the last time. Otherwise, what's the use of doing it? After all, it's a waste of your precious time. Time is equal to everyone. It doesn't matter whether you can complete your work or not, use this time to exercise your body. It is also possible to cultivate a sentiment.

But you must know how to refuse. If you think you don’t help, even if it is reasonable, you will still be criticized. Only by making your time more valuable, then the ineffective work will be farther and farther away from you.

In general, the workplace is long, we must respect ourselves for the sake of ourselves, so that the future can be more relaxed and comfortable. Only by treating ourselves well today, exercising a good body, recharging the brain more, and keeping ourselves passionate forever are all good choices. .

Allowing good habits to always accompany us, leaving room for our future, and making the most beneficial decisions now, is what truly respects our future selves.