The good and the evil in the human nature of the workplace, learn to accept, but also know how to discover the good

Since entering the workplace, I have long forgotten the kind of sincere communication between people in campus life. It is a luxury to meet a smile from the heart again, and trust is only short-lived. I don’t know when you think the sincerity has long been negative.

In the five or six years I have been working, my dreams are still the same as when I was on campus. When I contact with people in my student days, I am lamenting the cruelty of society. I am afraid that it will be difficult to meet people who are sincere. Until ten years of work, I can’t even dream. I can't remember what it was like when I was a student, I can only sit in front of the court and watch Yunjuan Yunshu.

Why is everyone expecting the sincerity to exchange the sincerity, and everyone thinks that they are sincere enough, but how can they not get someone who can exchange the sincerity? I'm afraid I have to talk about human nature.

The definition of human nature is generally divided into a narrow sense and a broad sense in writing. The narrow sense mainly refers to the inner sensibility of human beings, which is also different from animals, while the broad sense is a kind of psychological attribute that basically all animals have, belonging to the innate. .

Whether the innate nature is good or evil is also discussed endlessly. Even if there is a reason for it, there are too many examples. However, no matter whether the innate is good or evil, the acquired influence is undoubtedly unprecedented. can change a person.

It is said that war will complete the release of a person's nature, which is so evil that people are outrageous, but during the war, there will be too many people who are kind, and even there are many good sides in everyone, but in different environments. The performance is not the same.

So in the final analysis, it is the environment that creates a person, such as the school environment, the social environment, and the workplace environment. In a specific environment, the self-expression is completely incomplete.

Just like the evaluation of a person, different people have different evaluations of this, and even many evaluations are diametrically opposite, and interests will change a person's state of mind, so in an environment full of struggles, it is possible to cultivate friendship. Imagine how difficult it would be.

At this time, when we talk about human nature, and then look at the sincere smiles and mutual trust, you will feel a little sad. It is not that you sigh because there is no such thing, but the power of this invisible destruction makes people sigh.

As time goes on, the sincerity, sincerity and trust between people will become vulnerable, there will no longer be trust and sincerity among colleagues, and smiles will be fake...

Today, I like to watch the stars at night, but I am not a star, and I can't calculate some things that will happen in the future. But the quiet night sky can make the heart quiet and empty, and the dotted stars can make the heart ripple.

How many people used to be full of enthusiasm, and how many people have expectations for the workplace. With the passage of time, after leaving after a few years, they found that except for the breeze and a trace of regret, they didn't take anything away, let alone leave nothing, even There is no one who can recall the past together.

The nature of human nature in today's society has long been unpredictable, trying to figure out a person's thoughts is as difficult as climbing the sky, even if you can understand a person's nature, but you will never know which second you are in his heart. Opinions have already changed dramatically, because the workplace is different from others, and getting along day and night under the same roof does not allow you to act in extreme ways.

So you can't judge a person on the basis of good and evil, and you can't talk about things based on things. After all, there are too many related factors, and you can't understand them all. Just like that sentence, don't judge a person lightly. Because you didn't go through his experience.

In China's workplace, there is a set of management methods in China. The Chinese people talk about human feelings. Human nature is still the dominant idea of ​​the Chinese people, and it is also leading people to be good. Therefore, we don't need to worry about human nature in the workplace. Too tolerant.

Just do our best to treat it with sincerity, and let everything else take its course. Excessive reporting will only lead to a dead end.

In the workplace, being a person and doing things are mentioned the most. People who know how to be a person and can’t do things are okay before, but in today’s competition pressure is so great, people who are in the mud will only be eliminated faster.

You can do things but don't know how to be a person. You're just stupid. It's hard to get ahead, and you'll even get kicked out one day. Therefore, you have to grasp with both hands, and you have to be hard on both hands.

We are not only working, but also living. After all, work occupies most of our life. If most of us are intrigued, we will be too tired to live in this life.

At this time, we must first learn to accept and accept the different human nature of people. You may not do it, but you must admit it, otherwise you will be embarrassed.

The second is to be good at discovering goodness. No one is perfect. If a person is perfect, they are definitely finished. Therefore, we can’t just focus on the shortcomings of everyone. Then our evil side will only magnify infinitely. No one will face it with kindness anymore.

The last thing is that we must have the intention of harming others, and the heart of preventing others. No matter how kind people are, there will always be a moment of change over time. Only by maintaining a normal heart can we make our life easy and comfortable. Pleasure.