Given you two wives, which one do you want | Workplace routines are deep, so choose carefully
Recently, I have been seeing questions like this on the Internet:
"The leader who has been taking care of me has been transferred to another unit and wants to take me there. Should I go?"
"The company is going to adjust me from a core position to a more relaxed position, but the salary has not decreased. How should I choose?"
In the workplace, we are often faced with choices of one kind or another, and many of them are ambiguous and put us in a dilemma.
Given you two wives, which one do you want | Workplace routines are deep, so choose carefully
This brings me to an old fable:
After King Arthur was captured, the other king wanted to put him to death, but seeing that he was young and optimistic, he asked him to answer a question. If the answer was satisfactory, he would be freed.
The question is: what do women really want?
Arthur sought answers from everyone around him, but none of them were satisfactory.
Someone told Arthur that in a castle on the outskirts lived an old witch who was said to be omniscient, but was expensive and demanding.
Arthur finds the witch, who says she can help answer his questions, but on the condition that she marry Arthur's closest friend, Gavin.
This witch was extremely ugly, with a hunchback and only one tooth, and her body exuded an unpleasant odor. He was tall, handsome, and a brave warrior.
The witch asks to marry Gavin, which Arthur thinks is absolutely impossible. But when Gavin knew the news, he said firmly: "For you and our country, I am willing to marry her."
After the witch got her wish, she answered Arthur's question. She told Arthur: What a woman really wants is to be in control of her own destiny.
Given you two wives, which one do you want | Workplace routines are deep, so choose carefully
Soon, the wedding of the warmer and the witch takes place as planned. At the wedding, the witch eats, burps, and swears with her hands, making everyone feel sick, but the heating is as gentle as ever.
On the wedding night, Gavin walked into the new house, ready to face everything, but he found a peerless beauty lying on his bed that he had never seen before.
Facing Gavin's astonishment, the witch said, "In one day, I am half an ugly witch and half a peerless beauty. Do you think I will become a beautiful woman during the day or a beautiful woman at night?"
There are no more than two answers: one is a witch during the day and a beautiful woman at night, because the wife is her own; the other is a beautiful woman during the day. You can get the envy of others, but when you come home at night, it's dark, and it doesn't matter if you are beautiful or ugly.
So, how was the warming chosen?
"Since what a woman really wants is to be in control of her own destiny, then it's up to you to decide," Garwin said.
After hearing this, the witch said happily: "I choose a woman who is beautiful both day and night, because you know how to truly respect me."
Given you two wives, which one do you want | Workplace routines are deep, so choose carefully
In the workplace, the reason why we often find it difficult to choose is because many people always like to dominate other people's lives with their own preferences, but rarely consider whether others are willing or not.
When you truly respect and understand others, you will often get more.
In any case, the workplace is complicated, and many routines in the workplace are often unavoidable.
This requires us to base our choices on respect, understanding and trust. Only in this way will we get satisfactory results.