Why can't I practice after learning a lot? Three reasons, not only in the workplace, but everywhere
No matter whether you criticize, condemn, or hate, the workplace is full of unspoken rules, or the law of machinations in the workplace is there. With so many people and so few resources, struggle is inevitable. Therefore, learning Workplace machinations are very important to those who want to make a difference in the workplace. It is not for you to use them to harm or deceive people, because machinations are the most taboo to operate frequently, but to let you follow the rules, know how to be a person and do things, and make accurate decisions. Calculate and choose the plan with the least cost and the greatest benefit. However, many friends responded that they had learned so much, but could not practice it. They judged that this should be done, but they could not do it on the spot. Afterwards, they felt very regretful and asked what to do? There are three reasons why it can't be practiced, not only in the workplace, but everywhere!
1. Values are not in place
It's not knowledge, but the way of thinking. You can form a new way of thinking through long-term edification. Once you form a new way of thinking, it's very simple to look at various problems, just like that sentence Yes, as long as you are trained from a sheep to a wolf, no matter how weak you are, you will be able to eat even the strongest sheep. And no matter how powerful a sheep is, it is still a sheep, it can only eat grass, not meat. It is necessary to get rid of the original ecological family and the original ecological way of life. It is necessary to hone your way of thinking through a circle. Look at all kinds of things to abandon the emotional color.
For example: a person and a leader in the unit slap the table and stare, what should you do at this time? Even if you don't kick him, at least you should refute him on the spot, and scold him on the spot, "How did you talk to the leader?" The power of the leader, and you realize how we maintain the power of the leader, under this balance, do you want to fight him? This is practice, it is your sensitivity to power. That's the problem with the lack of values.
Just like some people ask for help, they feel very regretful when they meet the leader in the morning without saying hello to him. Is there any way to save it? The following group of enthusiastic people gave a bunch of ideas, but in fact they were of no use at all. Next time she will do it again, she will regret it. What is practice? If you know it and you can't use it, it's not practice. It's not that you have learned it, but you can't use it. It's that you haven't learned it at all. Your values are not in place. You see a leader who once had opinions on you walking in front of you. , you can't let go of your values, you can't let go of your face, you can't accept and please someone, you can't say it, you can't practice it, why can't you say it, it's not like we do those things that need to bear great consequences The thing, it doesn't. Those who are good at fighting have no success, and those who are good at chess have no skills. It does not mean that we have to do something big and big to be called practice. We must have great actions to be called practice. The practice of power strategy is that you are familiar with power and have a good understanding of power. Recognition of power, sensitivity to power, and then doing it invisibly, then this is practice. When you judge, you can say this sentence and do this thing. So values come first.
2. The resources are not in place
During the Mid-Autumn Festival, everyone is busy giving gifts. Every year at this time, someone asks, what should I give to the leaders? Don't send moon cakes. People with high blood lipids and high blood sugar can't eat moon cakes. It's best to send two bottles of Maotai. Many people say, I don't know where the leader's house is, I can't buy Moutai, how can I send it? This shows that your values are in order, but your resources are not in place, you can't even buy a bottle of Maotai, or you can't even buy a bottle of Wuliangye, or you don't even know where to send it, what the leader likes You don't know, what to do? So it is a question of resources, for example, where is the knife for "borrowing a knife to kill"? borrowed from whom? How long do you borrow? Will people borrow you? This is a matter of resources, which needs to be accumulated. Many people say that I have no money, so I go to work. I now earn two or three thousand wages, and a bottle of wine is 2,000 yuan. You asked me to give it to him. I am stupid! Who is stupid? If you are unwilling to invest, if you cannot do it at all, and do not have this resource, then you can only do it honestly, because it is not suitable to climb up through power. Some people are too low-level to learn tricks and tricks, so low that they cannot survive in society. It is difficult for a person who has a hard life to survive, because his thinking is limited by poverty. This is a problem of resources.
3. The means are not in place
The values are in place and the resources are in place, but because there is no means, if you want to do it, you can't do it, and you can't practice it. How to do? Then, through the observation and summary in your usual work, you should learn how the professionals in the workplace around you do, ask them more for advice, and strengthen the study of various cases, analyze various possibilities, and then figure out various means of coping, find Do it in the best way.
Therefore, why I have learned a lot but can’t practice it? There are three reasons. The first is that I don’t know this thing clearly. I can’t do it if I know it clearly. Familiar, not learned. Once you have learned it and your values have been clarified, then if you say something to the leader to please you, you don't think it is anything. Not only in the field of workplace machinations, but also in other places.