When people reach middle age, make friends with positive people

"Those who are close to the vermillion are red, those who are close to the ink are black."

When a person reaches middle age and makes friends with positive energy people, he will be open-minded, face the gains and losses calmly, and let the rest of his life live calmly and calmly.

"It's hard to come again in the morning, and the golden age will not come again." When people reach middle age, the most precious thing is time.

Where a person spends his time, his grades are also there.

When a person is middle-aged, he is already familiar with his work. If he can calm down and be willing to spend time to study deeper and more difficult problems, he will become an "expert-type" talent over time, and he will become a recognized person. "authority".

For example, a person who has been engaged in writing work for a long time has written materials for leaders for ten or twenty years, and can easily get all kinds of speeches and summaries. Easy life?

For a person who truly loves writing, this is the most productive time. From imitating writing to having one's own point of view, a qualitative leap has been achieved. They will cherish every opportunity to learn, every opportunity to practice writing, and carefully polish every manuscript.

On weekdays, I regard reading and newspapers as a compulsory course, and I not only familiarize myself with the newly released important official documents, but also conduct analysis and research, and learn from them, so as to improve the connotation of the manuscripts I write, and truly achieve "connect the antenna above and get down to earth". , both literary and easy to understand.

At work, you might as well make a few more friends like this. They cherish time like money. Even if they are already well-known, they are still pursuing excellence. Their focus and dedication to work can often give people a deep shock. Many times, our time is inadvertently "stolen" by various trivial matters, just because we are absent-minded and have no bottom line or principle for time management.

We are always busy, but nothing is productive, we just fail to cherish our time. Being friends with someone who cherishes time will urge yourself to "cherish time like gold".

It's better to make a sound of shouting.

The future you imagined, if you don't put it into practice, no matter how good it is, it is just an empty promise, and it is useless.

A down-to-earth and hard-working person always looks for one thing and always does more and says less. Don't be afraid even if you fall down, pat the soil on your body, clean up the wound, and move on. They can always think of more ways to overcome difficulties one by one.

When a middle-aged person is middle-aged, whether it is physical or mental, it is not as good as young people who are just starting out. Once they encounter setbacks and failures, they feel that they "can't afford to lose", and they often blame others. Want to run away.

When you are with people who are down-to-earth and hardworking, you will find that to overcome difficulties is to start from every detail, with the perseverance of Yugong to move mountains, without rushing or impatience, just follow your own rhythm and pace, and advance little by little. Things that are difficult will also be settled, as you wish.

In life, contentment can lead to happiness, but in spiritual pursuit, only "inadequate knowledge" can expel the feeling of emptiness and helplessness.

Many middle-aged people feel that after half a lifetime of ups and downs, it is time to take a break, so they indulge themselves in drinking, playing cards or other leisure entertainment.

But once indulged in it, the whole person will relax, and it won't take long to feel a "wasted" feeling.

But there are always people around us who are diligent and motivated. On the one hand, they are keen to study business, and on the other hand, they are keen to learn new things, or to regain their youthful hobbies and find new fun for themselves.

When people reach middle age, their physical functions begin to decline. Those who are diligent and motivated will always pay attention to fitness and health preservation. Before, they could not squeeze in time to exercise, but now they will arrange a certain time every day to complete them without any hassle.

Arrange the children, the elderly, and their own jobs, cut off some invalid social interactions, and use them to study and learn new skills, because every day there is in-depth study, there will always be new insights and new harvests.

People who are rich in spirit will have more courage to face difficulties, and will face the chicken feathers in life with a more peaceful mind.

When a person reaches middle age, half of his life is over.

Everything in the past is a foregone conclusion, and the rest of my life will start from now.

People with positive energy will not let themselves indulge in past failures or joys for a long time, but know how to turn the page and grasp the current time.

They are also unhappy and confused, but they do not complain, are not passive, and do not stagnate. They are always like the heroine Hao Sijia in Gone with the Wind: "Tomorrow, the sun will rise."

They have become their own "little suns", passing through the darkest moments of life step by step, making life brighter and brighter.

Befriend someone like that, and you'll be inspired, too, to keep the odds under your feet and just take your stride forward.