When a person is over 40, if you do these things well, you will be 'settled'

01

Working hard to make money and saving money well is the best explanation for life.

It's not hard to know what happened. A person who has never been poor will definitely not understand why a penny should be spent as two cents; he will also sneer at those who are desperate to make money.

It's just that everyone has "poetry and distance" in their hearts. If you want your dreams to come true, you need money to pave the way. People who are poor and white have to pay a hundred times the price.

As an ordinary person, there is no "mine" in the family, and there is no extraordinary ability and ingenuity. It is the only choice to make money down-to-earth and save money well.

I once read the story of a Japanese girl who saved money to buy three buildings by saving herself. This girl is only an office worker with a fixed salary. The desire to buy a house forces her to save money on food, clothing, housing and transportation. She is familiar with various commodity discounts, and she is determined to "don't buy if it's not a discount." , and insist on using the method of bookkeeping to urge yourself to be extremely frugal.

She said: "To save money and energy and use it on the things you love, I think this is responsible for yourself."

The simple truth, everyone understands, but many people just can't do it, they are used to spending as much as they earn. As a result, no matter how hard you try, you are still the "Moonlight Clan".

How can there be "stable happiness" in such a life without a bottom line? Once you encounter a sudden situation such as illness or unemployment, your life will fall into a collapsed situation.

Stop laughing at people who "exchange life for money". When you are having fun, he is using all the time to "make a fortune in silence". Don't bury the stingy and stingy person anymore. It is this kind of "stingy" behavior towards yourself and even others that allows him to save a lot of unnecessary expenses. Over time, the amount saved will also make you unbelievable.

Working hard to make money and saving money well is not vulgarity, but wisdom, which is the starting point for changing life.

02

Maintaining a good relationship between husband and wife and running a good family is the greatest success.

On Sunday, Yalin and her husband Abin went to the park together and walked around for a long time. The thirsty Yalin hurried to the store next to her, bought two ice creams, and happily handed one to her husband. The two were like children. Eating while walking has attracted a wave of "turning heads".

No, Yalin and Abin have been married for more than 20 years, and they are as sweet as they just fell in love. Both of them are teachers in the school, and the salary is not high, but they have a good life:

In teaching, both of them are backbones and are highly respected by students and parents; in life, whether it is taking children or doing housework, they never shirk. The child has been an academic bully since he was a child, and now he is admitted to a top university. Their family, in this small 18th-tier county town, is recognized as a happy family.

Yalin, who is almost fifty years old, looks like a high school student at first glance, young and beautiful. Abin's figure is not out of shape, but the precipitation of the years has brought a bit more mature temperament of a man.

Regarding the secret of keeping love fresh, Yalin said, maybe both of them are too busy to have time or energy to quarrel. Whenever I don't have to go to work, I think about how to live happily.

Yes, to be a husband and wife in this life requires a deep fate. Life is not long, and it is not enough to love each other well, why should it be used to quarrel? It is nothing more than that in the life of a chicken feather, I can no longer feel the love of the other party, and I want to be valued and pampered as before.

Husbands and wives are of one mind, in order to their profits cut money. When there is a crisis in love, don't be too busy to criticize, but stand firmly together and deal with it together, so as to usher in the rest of your life.

03

Educating a child well, guiding him to become an adult, will make him worry-free.

A child is a continuation of life, and only when he becomes an adult and becomes a parent can he worry about the rest of his life as a parent.

However, in a family, when the mother is coerced by anxiety, the father is kidnapped by work, and when parents face their children, except for worries and dry teachings, when they cannot enter the child's heart, the child's growth path will inevitably change. got bumpy.

Gone are the days of material scarcity; getting a child to be a healthy person is starting to become a problem. Topics such as "Give girls bottom-line education, give boys sunshine education", "It is better to raise the rich than to raise the poor" can always touch the sensitive nerves of parents.

Good grades, good schools, and a good life seem to be the only right path, stressing parents and students alike. Some people complain, some give up, but others are always full of confidence and patience, guiding children to overcome one growing hurdle after another.

Act by example, teach by words and deeds, and tell children that "you will not be afraid of the hardships of life if you can endure the hardships of reading." "If you work hard, you will become a better version of yourself step by step."

This is a long and arduous process, and sometimes flowers bloom, even if the surrounding flowers bloom, you should not give up, because your child may be born a towering tree.

When a person is over forty, life is a new beginning.

At this stage, we must learn to return ourselves to ourselves and others to others.

Love yourself and those around you. The future is not long, you have to stay healthy, calm down, and face the partings of life one after another.

Perhaps, in the days to come, there will be more unknown wind and rain, but please believe that after the wind and rain, there will be a rainbow, and you will eventually meet another sunny day.