The higher the level of a person, the more alienated these types of people will be.

A truly high-level person is not born "with a golden key", has a wealthy family background and wealth, nor simply has a high degree of education or a high position, but knows how to "believe in yourself, rely on yourself, and achieve yourself", which has been achieved. The "seemingly impossible" dream of life.

People with higher levels know more about self-pursuit and self-restraint. They know very well that those around them are the objects of their own learning, imitation and transcendence. Bring your own bias.

Therefore, really high-level people often do not interact with the following types of people, even if they are in the same office, there is a clear gap.

A person who is content with the status quo and does not want to make progress.

The higher the level, the more "actionists".

For them, time is the most precious and action is the most effective. Now that the goal has been set, it is to achieve the most obvious effect with the fastest speed and the most convenient method, and then move forward step by step to reach a higher goal.

Therefore, encountering difficulties at work means climbing a new peak. Their first reaction is: "find a way to solve it." Instead, how can such a difficult thing be pushed to me again?

For example, the newspaper office promotes the operation of all media, and requires everyone to not only write good articles, but also learn to shoot videos, make pictures and texts, so as to meet the diversified reading needs of the public. For high-level people, they will take the initiative to participate in various trainings, and also learn various editing software, and they will get started quickly. But for a person who is content with the status quo, they are indifferent, and they will say all kinds of nasty things, and finally let it go.

People who are content with the status quo are screaming bitterness and tiredness every day, even if they don't do anything at all, in fact, they want to be like this every day.

People with really high levels are no longer willing to associate with people who are content with the status quo, just because they don't want to be influenced by their negative and disdainful attitude towards life.

They want to hear a voice of approval and encouragement so that when they are tired and frustrated, they can quickly boost their confidence.

A narrow-minded, preoccupied person.

Really high-level people like to learn about new things, and they regard learning as the normal state of life. Not only pay attention to the knowledge update of professional skills, but also like to spend time to understand the external world and find new opportunities for their own development.

People with narrow vision will always only have their own "one acre and one third of land" in their hearts. What they are talking about is those "old sesame and rotten millet" things. Between these few things that they can settle, once others If there are new breakthroughs and new ideas, they will be haggard, and they will have to make you bow your head and admit defeat.

In the final analysis, these caring people are small-minded, small-minded, most selfish, and most lazy and incompetent. Their cares, in many cases, is a kind of "shame", either to exploit the loopholes, or to seize the psychology of others who do not want to be entangled with them, and forcibly occupy the interests of others.

If you work with this kind of person, the best way is to keep your own affairs tight, not to leave anyone any clues, and not to mix their money with them.

The higher a person's level, the wider his horizons. They are like Kunpeng, who can soar up to 90,000 miles. But those who care about each other are like sparrows, which can only fly a few dozen feet at the highest. The realm is different, so there is no need to argue with them, let alone agree with them.

Choosing to stay away is also a kind of respect.

A vulgar, mercenary person.

Zhuangzi said: "The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, and the friendship between villains is sweet." The higher a person's level, the more he pursues the friendship of "gentlemen", and the emphasis is on character and self-cultivation, and it is the fit of the spiritual world.

Words speak for themselves, what a person says, he often does. In the restaurant, the person who shouted loudly and shouted at the waiter, no matter how lavish the shot and how exquisitely dressed, would make people avoid it. When queuing, people who suddenly cut in line and shouted loudly are always disdainful.

The higher the level, the more taciturn and cautious they are. They value their own words and deeds. When they talk and behave, they always take into account the feelings of others, which makes people feel like a spring breeze.

Those who speak vulgarly, either open or close their mouths and put "I" in their mouths and save others by themselves; or they flatter and please, showing the mentality of quick success and quick success, and their cognition, pursuit and spiritual realm are also at a glance, that is a kind of nakedness The "little family" gas gives people a feeling of suffocation.

People who deliberately find fault and like to complain.

In life, there is a type of people who are dissatisfied with everything. On the one hand, they may have suffered unfair treatment, and they are angry; on the other hand, they may be inferior to others, but they are not convinced. Therefore, what they say is always "rush", with obvious "provocation" meaning, if they disagree, they will quarrel with others.

Such people who advertise themselves as "suffering grievances", in the final analysis, are small in temperament and have no real ability.

In the face of this kind of person who deliberately wants to get along with others, a truly high-level person will never stab this "hornet's nest" easily. Even if they come to the door consciously or not, they want to find trouble, or use the topic to play, they can change the topic quietly. Also, establish clear boundaries between yourself and the other person.

This "transcendence" attitude is both an exhortation and a warning.

Those who are close to Zhu are red and those who are close to ink are black, and those who are really high-level people, they call themselves outstanding and have their own faction.

After getting along for a long time, their mavericks also discouraged the people around them. Therefore, they eventually became a landscape.