Nude speech, you need to be more rational after being impulsive

Welcome to Career Dao Time, the career Dao can only be known after you have heard it. I am Jane. In fact, for the vast majority of workplace people, resignation is a difficult choice. Sometimes work is not going well and you want to quit. . However, I will hesitate again in my heart, what are you going to do after resigning? I have to find a new job again, update my resume, submit a resume, and interview. Will the new job not be as good as the original one? Therefore, resignation is also risky, especially unprepared and unprepared resignations.

It is said that naked speech is the product of impulsiveness, but to force people in the workplace to stimulate this impulse is also to experience the pressure and dissatisfaction that accumulates in the workplace. According to the survey of workplace people's naked remarks released by Qiancheng Wuyou in 2019. The biggest reason for naked resignation is "too low salary". Rather than waiting for death, it is better to scrape the bones to heal the wounds, and to force oneself to a dead end can maximize the potential-long pain is worse than short pain, maybe this is the real idea of ​​giving up because of money. The second reason for compelling resignation is “dissatisfaction with colleagues and bosses”, and the pain caused by interpersonal relationships is more resonating with struggling workplace people than the third “job content is boring”. This was followed by "dissatisfaction with the company system".

It can be seen that the reason for people in the workplace to resign without hesitation is not that they can't bear the hardship and pressure, but that "self-awareness" is more important, the tension brought by interpersonal relationships, the boredom brought by the work itself, and the unreasonable company system. , which makes the pain of the workplace unbearable. However, although naked resignation is cool for a while, for job seekers who have no accumulation of funds, no personal connections, and are preparing to work in first-tier cities, naked resignation is an unreasonable and helpless choice.

Friends around me have experienced a naked speech this year, and they are also deeply sighing when sharing. For him, the feeling of naked speech is far from the situation he imagined. Because I haven't been able to figure out what kind of job I should look for next, I was quite entangled when I resigned. A few days after I just resigned, I thought about relaxing first, and then I started to submit my resume to look for a job. I thought that there are many job opportunities in big cities, so it should not be a problem, but the result is: it has been almost a month since I resigned, and the daily expenses are not small. There were two interviews with no response.

Moreover, because the company had been too comfortable in the past, there was no certificate examination, and there were few businesses in charge, and he did not pay attention to other people's work, so the interview was very limited. After I started to apply for a job again, I was particularly tormented. I ran interviews every day, met various companies, filled out dozens of resumes, and sometimes even had three or four interviews a day, but all of them were lost. I have no mind or appetite. I go to bed at night thinking about how to arrange tomorrow's schedule and how to say the interview. But after the discomfort, I will continue to study, check information, and communicate with former colleagues.

Now, when I talk about the nude remarks at that time, I feel that I have no regrets, because I have a clear understanding of my own smallness and what value I have in this market. These make me even more hopeful to improve and cherish the work in the future.

Not everyone can receive a job offer immediately after resigning naked. Even for most ordinary workplace people, there will inevitably be a short or long blank period after resigning naked, so it must be treated correctly. During this period, it directly affects your future work mentality and career planning.

So, in these three periods, what should the "Naked Ci" people do?

"Naked speech" resentment period - adjust mentality

During this period, the most important thing to do is to adjust your mentality as soon as possible, so that you can get rid of the unpleasant emotions of the previous job as soon as possible. Because the longer you are immersed in this emotion, the more serious your emotional fermentation will be, and the more your inner damage will be. In fact, this matter is a bit like "psychological stop loss". Since you have already lost, there is no need to worry about it. "Don't cry over spilled milk" is the truth. At this stage, you can go to relax, start some hobbies, or carry out planned training and improvement of your professional skills, which are all good choices.

Crazy period of "naked resignation" - don't give up if you can't find a job

Not being able to find a job after a while can drive you crazy. If this happens unfortunately, there is no need to panic. On the one hand, you should try to maintain a regular life, so that you can keep yourself in a better state to deal with the interview opportunities that come at any time. Do not reverse black and white, day and night, it is difficult for people to show a normal appearance in an interview when they are tired or very decadent. On the other hand, keep summarizing the experience of writing resumes and attending interviews. Frankly speaking, in fact, interviewing is also a skilled job. You have to understand why a company doesn’t want you. Is it a flaw in your resume or a failure to show good work experience in an interview? If you can summarize and reflect every time, you will soon gain something.

The later stage of "Naked Speech" - Adjusting the way of thinking and starting again

If you “resign naked” for a few months and still haven’t found a job, you are likely to enter a period of deep confusion. If you are in this period, there is a good chance that the problem itself cannot be solved by your own efforts. My suggestion is to talk to a professional, such as a career planner, to find out what the problem is. Many times, it is "the authorities are obsessed with bystanders," and there is a professional career planner who can help you clear your mind. At this stage, don’t go to the horns of bullshit. To objectively assess your current state and act quickly, you still have to formulate some principles for yourself:

1. Have clear goals. Knowing what you want and don't want, neither bare words nor transitions are a means of escape. What job you want to do, what industry you want to get involved in, and what position you want to fight for, you must always have clear goals.

2. Master the time node. The transition can only be temporary, but the longer it goes, the more likely it is to lose the original goal. Create a daily action plan. Your current job is to look for a job, and you can set aside a few hours to look for a job every day, and you don’t need to make any temporary efforts.　

3. Participate in community or circle activities. Don't isolate yourself, socialize and let your friends know you need a job right now.

4. Constantly revise the target. The goal should be clear, but not impossible to change. With the improvement and change of the interview situation and the needs of the enterprise, the goal needs to be tailored to be more specific and more actionable.

Job-hopping is a common occurrence in the workplace, but there are high-level and low-level points. Low-level job-hopping will bring your career development back to the original point, and many of these job-hopping happen under "impulse"; high-level job-hopping will drag you out of the trough of life, and even help you reach the peak of life . So don't do stupid things like low-level job-hopping.