My friend is developing very well, but I can't achieve anything, what should I do?
As the saying goes, there is no harm without contrast. When you live in a second-tier city with a monthly salary of 8,000 yuan, you live a happy life, you can eat enough for your family and you are not hungry, and you are happy about it; you see a friend around you earning a monthly salary of 2w, married a daughter-in-law and gave birth to a baby Baby, when you are happy, do you feel unwilling and feel that you have accomplished nothing?
In fact, life is far from what it appears on the surface, and everyone has secrets in their lives. The elite gentleman will share a few stories with you today.
Mr. Dai, in his early 40s, is the vice president of human resources in a large real estate company, with an annual salary of more than one million. In the eyes of outsiders, regardless of position or salary, Mr. Dai is properly a high-level talent and a winner in life. But for him, he still felt that nothing had been accomplished. He manages nearly ten business departments of the company, large and small, plus a branch, and has no time or energy to pursue his dream of playing football when he was young. Even the hotly debated World Cup is just a day of free time to make up for the wonderful moments of scoring the day before and the fun facts of the game. Dai's total salary is indeed very high, but the high salary is exchanged for busy work. With money, he no longer has time to spend on things he likes.
Jiajia, female, 34 years old. Graduated from Hunan Normal University, responsible for the home appliance channel of Beijing People's Network. In 15 years, a sudden serious illness made her stay in hospital for a full year and a half. After returning to the unit in 2017, Lily, who turned out to be a junior in the same department and whose ability is not as good as his own, has been promoted to the manager of the business department. Jiajia herself has been out of touch with the society for a long time. Although the company still paid her the original salary, it arranged for her a more relaxed and almost odd job. There were no clients and no projects. Of course, her income was far worse than before. But Jiajia did not complain. In order to better face her work, she took her rest time in the past year to participate in various vocational trainings in new media, marketing management, planning, etc. to enrich her abilities. Although Jiajia currently only has a salary of a few thousand yuan and the position is only nominal, Jiajia expressed full confidence in her future development.
Lao He, a junior secretary of the third-tier urban planning bureau. In the local area, everyone he knew called him Mr. He. Nearly 40 years old, living in a senior room with a down payment from my parents, hugging my daughter-in-law married by my parents’ retirement pension, teasing my daughter who was raised by my parents’ coffin, repaying the loan and driving an Accord of more than 200,000 yuan, every day. Calling friends to eat, drink, and have fun, I feel like I am rich and powerful, and I am the best among the people. But last year, my father suffered from leukemia and stayed in the hospital for half a year. He felt a little better a year ago, so he was discharged from the hospital and went home, but within three days of returning home, the high fever did not subside. The old man said that he would leave the money to his children and grandchildren, but he refused to go to the hospital. I spent most of my life eating and drinking, but in the end, because of money problems, my father passed away at home. Even if Lao He did not worry about eating and drinking for the rest of his life, he would not be at ease.
What do you mean by nothing? Everyone has different standards for this.
Life is your own, as long as you live your own life, why compare it with others? Everyone has their own trajectory in life, and the development of friends may inspire you to lead to a better future and set out on the bright side.