Others will say more than you, because you have no talent and clumsiness? Today, let's talk about deliberate practice
In our life, we often encounter such a situation. At work, we encounter a colleague who can speak well, is an opinion leader in a meeting, is the topic center when chatting, is the warm-up one when drinking, and is a guest at a party. A host or something, and the leaders communicate with each other in a good way. Just the right size for every occasion.
With such high-frequency exposure, how many good things could be without him? Many people are envious of the old students. The enterprising person always thinks about how I can become a person who can talk like him. In the end, I gave up after a few days of research, because the effect was not obvious. Those who are pessimistic think that his talent will come, I am naturally clumsy, my mind is slow, and I am not good at it.
When encountering a problem, don’t look at the surface, but calm down and analyze the reasons behind it. Through your own observation, you can find that such people have the following characteristics:
The reserves of knowledge are relatively wide and deep, and they have thought deeply about many issues and have their own unique insights.
I prefer to read books, and I can remember and convert what I read into my own thoughts or opinions.
Quick thinking, strong ability to summarize and summarize, he can summarize the main points in a few hours of speech. Always get to the point when talking to someone.
Can speak better than others, like to communicate with others, and speak up whenever possible.
- Know how to improve yourself and persevere.
But these all have a common feature, which is deliberate practice, which is the topic we are talking about today, deliberate practice. Deliberate practice is one or several things that we want to do to achieve a certain purpose. Through repeated intentional practice, we can continuously improve our level and skills.
Whether it is in our work, study or life, if we want to improve in some aspects and be better than others, deliberate practice is a better method. So when we see a certain aspect of other people's excellence, we can imagine how much effort they put into it. Don't just see the results and ignore the process that others have prepared for it.
When you understand this, you will be able to see the gap between yourself and others more clearly, and you will have a better sense of direction in doing things yourself in the future.
Think about issues that are not so narrow and simple, and don’t bring your own prejudices. To be a social person with deep thinking ability. Maybe you will become the 20% in your field through deliberate practice