It's okay to make mistakes, the fear of making mistakes is the worst
Now a popular term is "involution", which refers to irrational internal competition or "voluntary" competition. It now refers to the phenomenon that peers compete to devote more efforts to compete for limited resources, resulting in a decrease in the individual "revenue-effort ratio". Fierce competition has caused people to have higher and higher requirements for themselves, and more and more pursuit of perfection, for fear of making even a little mistake and causing a fatal blow to themselves. I understand the principle that "people are not saints and sages, and whoever has their faults", but when they really encounter them, they blame themselves in every possible way, which invisibly creates huge psychological pressure, which in turn affects subsequent decision-making and actions.
When meeting in the department, I am afraid that my views are not mature enough, and I will leave a deep impression on the leaders. I always want to wait until the consideration is mature. As a result, all the ideas that came to my mind were spoken out by others, and I failed to present my own views at the end of the meeting.
Some people are dominated by the idea of "the more you do, the more mistakes you make", and they have developed a good ability to play football. If there is a problem, the responsibility is someone else's, and they are eager to use all means to clear their own responsibilities. Gradually form a habit. When encountering any problem, the first reaction is to find various reasons to shirk. After a long memory, at work, I can push it as I can, I dare not undertake important work tasks, and I am afraid that I will be held accountable for not doing well. I always feel that it is thankless to work hard, and I secretly rejoice that I have touched the essence of workplace survival.
Fear of making mistakes unconsciously leaves a way out for yourself, but your own problems have not been resolved, and the problems still exist. Fear of being immature, but you don't give the impression of being mature; fear of taking responsibility, but you only leave the image of being incapable of taking responsibility. Fear of making mistakes is an extreme manifestation of psychological fragility. Don’t be like a child. It will take days to be criticized for making mistakes.
As a person who is struggling in society, first of all, you must cultivate the ability to be thick-skinned and fight; secondly, you must refine the correct method to avoid making mistakes and improve your ability; finally, you must review and summarize frequently, and continuously improve.