How to get along with the boss in an office? Opportunities and risks coexist, please keep your mouth shut and open your legs
In an office with the boss, you have to keep your mouth shut and not talk nonsense; you have to spread your legs and be a diligent employee; more importantly, keep a proper distance, and remember to avoid some sensitive topics and privacy.
- Keep your mouth shut and remember that disaster comes from your mouth =========================================================================
There is an old saying in China that "calamity comes from the mouth", and there is another saying that "too many words must be lost". When you are in the same office with the proprietress, you should always remember a principle: say what you should say, and don't say what you shouldn't say. Keep your mouth shut for a long time.
When chatting with the boss, please remember 3 irrelevances, namely: nothing to do with the company's business development, nothing to do with the boss's behavior, and nothing to do with the parents of colleagues. It is best to chat with the boss about some topics she is interested in, such as celebrity gossip, dress, current affairs news, etc. that have nothing to do with work and the boss's family, so as to make the boss happy without causing trouble.
- There is nothing wrong with being diligent ==============================================
Having an office with the boss’s wife means that the employees and the boss’s wife have similar rank on the surface, but they must not pursue “equality”. Be sure to step out of your legs, do the work you need to do well, and don't have emotional reactions.
Come a few minutes early, tidy up the office environment, pour water, make tea and wipe the desk. Although a bit cumbersome, it can leave a good impression. You must take the initiative to do things like taking documents and printing materials. Because of your status, you lose the right to "wait and rely", but it is also an opportunity for performance.
- Keep your distance and remember to avoid it in time =======================================================
The boss lady will inevitably involve some private affairs between husband and wife, as well as some sensitive topics in business, at this time, she must know how to avoid it. Sometimes in the workplace, the more you know, the better. Implementing avoidance of sensitive topics and privacy is an unspoken rule that mature workplace people should understand.
When the proprietress meets with guests that have nothing to do with you, when the proprietress talks about the boss on the phone, when the proprietress unintentionally wants to discuss with you about the boss's behavior and colleagues, remember to find a way to avoid it and make excuses. open a topic.
Not only that, you must pay attention to maintaining a certain safety distance. Boys should pay more attention to the difference between men and women, pay attention to words and deeds, and maintain a gentleman's demeanor; girls should not be reckless, after all, it is different from the usual colleague relationship.
- Epilogue ============
Being in the same office as the boss, if you handle it well, it will make your future icing on the cake; Keep a clear head, keep your mouth shut, spread your legs, keep your distance, and have a good relationship with the boss, which will help your career future. But also be vigilant, opportunities and dangers coexist.