Having dinner with the leader, saying these words is low emotional intelligence, no wink, and destroys the atmosphere
Chinese people like to call it "dinner", what is "game"? There are several meanings in the dictionary.
Chessboard: such as a chess game.
Chess and other games: such as opening. match. Authorities fans.
The situation or outcome of chess and other games: victory. draw. Tie.
A game of chess or other games is called one game at a time: eg, a game of chess is played.
Situation; situation; situation: eg, ending. war situation. Take care of the overall situation.
The amount of people's equipment: For example, the amount of the game. locality.
Call certain parties: eg, dinner parties. gambling.
Trap: For example, a scam.
Restraint: For example, cramped. limited.
Last name.
The names of certain stores, such as bookstores.
In these definitions, except for the 10th, which is a surname, all the other definitions have a layer of meaning around a certain thing, a circle. As the first meaning, playing chess, what is playing chess? Playing chess is to calculate the gains and losses, and playing chess is to win the opponent as the starting point. Another example is the sixth level of meaning, which describes a person's capacity. What is the capacity? There are large and small amounts of equipment, and it is often necessary to endure. However, the meaning of the eighth and ninth layers is more straightforward. The meaning of the bureau is directly to trap, directly to restrain, or to feel at ease, to know how to restrain!
After you understand this, you must pay attention to your words and deeds when you attend dinner parties in the future, especially those with leaders present, but you can’t say anything or do anything. If you don’t know how to restrain yourself at dinner parties yourself, then the game will be a trap and you will fall into it.
Don't talk about these topics when you have dinner with the leader, otherwise you will be really stupid!
Having dinner with the leader, saying these words is low emotional intelligence, no wink, and destroys the atmosphere
One, brag!
Any dinner party has a protagonist and a supporting role. You are not getting married today, and you are not the biggest official - the groom's official, so find your own position in the dinner party. Humans have different emotions and desires. In daily work, they are cautious in their words and deeds, and restrain themselves. It is rare to have a chance to have a meal with everyone. If you can eat together, it means that you have a good relationship or a good impression. Three glasses of white wine When you eat, you must keep your mouth shut, the leader is present, and don't brag! If you brag, there will be the following consequences. First, the leader thinks that you are a person without determination and unreliable. Three glasses of wine will show the original shape. What else can you do? Second, what if the leader believes your bragging and entrusts you to do a difficult task, and you are sobered up and can't do it? Why find this unpleasant for yourself? Illness comes in from the mouth, and misfortune comes out of the mouth. It is better to say less!
Having dinner with the leader, saying these words is low emotional intelligence, no wink, and destroys the atmosphere
Second, the words of credit!
Colleagues are eating together to create a harmonious atmosphere and enhance their relationship. At this time, if you keep talking about how hard you work and how hard you are at work, it is actually a very unwise behavior. First, what is the use? How many people can remember what you said when you were drinking and eating? Second, asking for credit is basically the same as bragging. If you do this before everyone else, you have low emotional intelligence, and you have nothing to make yourself a target for everyone! Third, humility makes people progress, but pride makes people fall behind. The more people there are, the less humble you are and the more you take credit. In fact, you are doing negative advertising for yourself.
Having dinner with the leader, saying these words is low emotional intelligence, no wink, and destroys the atmosphere
- Objection!
Eating is a pleasure, keep the atmosphere good! However, some people feel that this is a rare opportunity to communicate, so they also bring out all kinds of negative things in their work. Or you can directly open up and say that others are not doing well at work! What's the point of this? Everyone is eating, how do you ask the leader to step down? Pretend you didn't hear it? Not suitable! It's not appropriate to express your opinion on the spot! After all, as a leader, what matters is fairness and justice. You can't listen to your one-sided words, so just jump to conclusions! In a dinner party, it is not suitable to start directly at work! The working hours are so long, why don't you say? Did you say it at this time? Ruin the atmosphere?
The second way is to say, at this time, who has an opinion on something at work. Although this is not what you are talking about, it will give people two impressions. The bad things you say are true or false, and people talking bad things about people behind their backs will be annoying! You are giving yourself points. Second, you are digging a hole. Even if you drink alcohol, you are not stupid! Who are you digging to bury?
The original intention of the dinner party is to exchange feelings and enhance cohesion. Therefore, it is better to spread less negative energy. This is not to teach people to be cunning, but basic workplace etiquette!