These five things are rotten in the stomach and can't be talked about with colleagues, no matter how hard the relationship is
No matter how strong your relationship with your colleagues is, you still have to keep your balance and say nothing that shouldn't be said, otherwise you will suffer.
- About your “backstage” background ====================================
Jobs and positions obtained by relying on one's own relationship and having a "backstage" are relatively common in state-owned enterprises and institutions. Although there may be many people in the enterprise who are "relatives of the royal family", it is too ostentatious to openly disclose that you have obtained the work through public conspiracy and smuggling shortcuts. "Backstage" is not good, and it is easy to be criticized at work.
- Personal communication with superiors. =========================================
It is a good thing for me to have a good relationship with the superiors and have some private friendship with each other. The leaders may give certain conveniences or even be biased at work.
Although this is a good thing, you should keep a low profile in the workplace and try not to let other colleagues know about your private relationship with the leader to avoid unnecessary misunderstandings.
- Your own personal affairs. =============================
Some people like to chat with their colleagues about their personal affairs, parental relationship, husband and wife relationship, relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, etc. Although it is not a shameful thing, but if you talk a lot, it will inevitably be used by colleagues as a talking point. It will damage your professional image.
- Privacy. ===========
In addition to personal friendships and personal affairs, you cannot talk to your colleagues, let alone your privacy. You must never use it to talk to your colleagues. Once you talk about it, the walls will have ears, and it is hard to guarantee that your colleagues will not talk to others, and your privacy will be secretly spread. . Therefore, the topic of privacy should never be discussed with colleagues unless you want to make it public.
- Work confidential. =====================
Company secrets, important work data, customer information, etc. that you have within your own authority should not be used as important information to communicate with colleagues. In addition, some of your own work methods, work routines, shortcuts, it is best not to be mastered by colleagues, otherwise they will be used by caring people, and they will suffer a lot.
The above points must not be shared with colleagues in the workplace, and don’t tell them if they are rotten in the stomach.