In the workplace, the boss cannot fully believe what the employee says, and cannot judge the boss's intention based on the surface of the words alone. Sometimes the boss speaks nicely on the surface and seems to be very satisfied with you, but in fact he wants to make a knife on you. Don't just listen to it. surface.

There are these three sentences, the boss said to you, it proves that he wants to marginalize you, so don't be silly and don't understand.

The first sentence: Let you go to the grassroots to exercise more.

In the name of "going down to the grassroots level", the boss often sends an employee he doesn't like to an invisible corner, which is called "exercise", but have you thought about the actual meaning?

If the boss usually neither values ​​you highly nor has a good relationship with you, why would he suddenly give you a chance to "exercise"? Although many people use the way of "going down to the grassroots" in exchange for growth in their positions, if the boss does not plan your career prospects after your "exercise" privately with you, then it is very likely that this is just the boss who wants to take you. a means of marginalization.

The second sentence: You work too hard, I will arrange an assistant to assist you.

Is your boss really caring about your hard work? Is it really to share the pressure with you?

When the boss said this to you, you should really think about the deep meaning, combine the boss's usual attitude towards you, the degree of trust and reuse of you, and then analyze the authenticity of the boss's sentence.

Perhaps, the boss just uses the name of "assistant" to put eyeliner around you, slowly transfer resources from your hands, and then marginalize or even kick you away when the time comes.

The third sentence: As a reward from the company, you should take some time off.

As a company that emphasizes efficiency and input and output, it is too extravagant to give employees a period of vacation.

The boss may have ulterior motives for giving you such "preferential treatment".

It's not uncommon to stage a "dove occupying a magpie's nest" while you're not there, and to put you on the air when you come back.

When the boss says something to you, especially the sudden "good word", you must make more guesses and recognize the boss's true intentions.