As a professional, some people think that the more dinner parties they have, the more popular they are, the more people they communicate with, and the more people look up to them. Is it really so?

I don't think so.

Some of the dinners in the workplace are just a pit. If you are invited to attend, it is equivalent to stepping on the pit! Professionals must see these three kinds of meals clearly! Never eat and drink with food!

The first: a competitor's meal.

It is said that there are no friends in the workplace, let alone any friendship and cooperation between competitors!

Therefore, when a competitor invites you to dinner, you must recognize the real purpose. The other party may want to obtain your information, or exchange your interests, seize your resources, or even set up a situation to make you lose your competitiveness.

Therefore, do not go to the competition of competitors, lest you be caught or used, and you will not be able to turn over!

The second type: a dinner for the villain in the workplace.

The villains in the workplace are usually those who are mercenary, full of scheming, and like to cross rivers and demolish bridges. These people's dinners will not be good if they think about it, and they will go to the Three Treasures Hall for everything. purpose, or want to use your rights to certain resources.

If you don't want to be in the company of these villains, and don't want to help them at all, then don't go to their dinner party, otherwise you will have a short mouth to eat people, and it will be difficult to refuse at that time.

The third type: a meal with someone who is at odds with the leader.

Some people like to sing opposite leaders in the workplace and collide with leaders, which is a thorn in the eyes of leaders.

If these people want to gain a firm foothold in the workplace, they are bound to find their own comrades, form gangs, and exclude dissidents.

Most of the bureaus they set up are for this purpose. If you go, you agree to be with him. Even if that's not what it means, once you participate, you are considered a part of the group in the eyes of others. If you let the leaders know, then you will become even more reactionary. So, in any case, this kind of dinner can't go.

Most people in the workplace are reluctant to go to these dinners, how about you?