Be kind, and remember these tricks in the workplace, don't let your colleagues trick you
It is a virtue to be kind to others. Don't care about others in everything, think about each other more, and treat everyone with a kind heart. But in the workplace, even a kind-hearted person should learn to protect himself. We do not have the intention to harm others, but we must also prevent others from harming us.
The following tricks are essential in the workplace to protect you from co-workers.
- Go ahead with ugly words and avoid disputes over responsibility. ===================================================================
Some people like to talk beautifully at the beginning, but then they blame each other when there is a problem. Therefore, when doing things in the workplace, you must put the villain first and then the gentleman, and put the ugly words first. The worst consequences should be known first, and the responsibilities should be clarified first, so as to avoid evading each other because of bad consequences.
- Don't say too much, leave a way out for yourself. ====================================================
In the workplace and among colleagues, don’t talk too much. Before making a commitment, you must think twice and leave yourself a way back. If things fail, you have a way out.
Don't be too extreme in being a person, get along with your colleagues, leave a little leeway for each other, don't say anything, and when you need to cooperate with each other in the future, you will be embarrassed and unable to come down to the stage.
- Mutual interests should be clear. ====================================
Some people like to be a good person and help others, they are embarrassed to talk about interests with each other, and think that speaking too clearly will hurt each other's feelings. But these things are not clearly defined in advance, and when things are done, disputes over unfair distribution of the cake will be very ugly.
Therefore, the distribution of benefits should be clear, what should be fought for for yourself, and don't be embarrassed.
4, seven points letter, three points doubt.
Even the best colleagues in the workplace cannot trust each other 100%. Be careful when you are a person and do things, keep the principle of "seven points of faith and three points of doubt", listen to 70% obediently, and leave three points to think more about yourself and think about the other party's true intentions.
Only in this way can we recognize which are pits and which are real, and avoid being fooled by colleagues.
The above tricks are not to teach you to calculate others, but to let you pay more attention, recognize the truth in the workplace, and avoid calculation.