A person's emotional intelligence and pattern can basically be seen from the workplace wine table. A person who is smooth and thoughtful in dealing with things, also behaves both sides at the wine table, is good at observing words and expressions, and will never say a wrong word to offend people.

For those with low emotional intelligence, it is inevitable that they will hurt others in the wine bureau, and they are not aware of it. Sometimes misfortune comes out of your mouth, and your unhappiness in the workplace starts here.

There are three words, no matter how good the relationship is, don't mention it at the wine table, it hurts!

The first sentence: sarcasm.

No matter how well-connected colleagues are, they can’t speak without any scruples, and at the wine table, they have to consider each other’s face in front of everyone. Can't say a word of sarcasm.

In matters of work, don't raise the pot without opening it, and talk nonsense at the wine table. For example, what work problems have colleagues encountered recently, and they have been scolded by leaders.

And some things that you think are trivial, maybe speaking out will make the other person feel ashamed. For example, mocking the other party for not being able to drink, teasing the other party for pouring a drink, etc.

Second sentence: provocative contemptuous words.

It is extremely disrespectful to challenge others at the wine table.

Some people like to fight wine at the wine table. If you have fun with your friends in private, then maybe everyone will not mind too much.

But you are now at the drinking table in the workplace, and you have to pay extra attention to the occasion. No matter how good or close the relationship is, don't make provocations at will. The other party doesn't drink, or expresses that he doesn't want to drink. You must take care of the other party's feelings, and don't make provocations and say contemptuous words. The closer the relationship, the more respectful it is.

The third sentence: the words of dragging people into the water.

If you encounter embarrassing things at the wine table and you can't get off the stage, you should handle it calmly. Don't try to pull other colleagues into the water because of this, and save yourself.

Maybe everyone will be distracted for a while, but your workplace relationships will get worse and worse.

Respect and understanding are required at the workplace drinking table. No matter how well-connected colleagues are, they cannot say the above three sentences, otherwise your interpersonal relationship will become quite bad.