The essence of etiquette is to make others convenient, not your own.

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Friends who are familiar with me know that when I send WeChat messages, it is convenient to send text without sending voice.

As long as you speak, the other party will listen to it for as long as you want. You can't fast forward or pause. When someone with a big face like me accidentally hits the screen while listening, they have to do it all over again. Text is easy to search and forward, but voice is not, nor can you take screenshots.

You move your lips and swish it, you are convenient, but you forgot to consider the other party's troubles.

Last night on the subway I was going home, an old man was sitting on the seat and dangling Erlang's legs happily. Others were careful when they passed by, for fear that his shoes would rub against their trouser legs.

Some people seem to be unable to afford headphones, play games or watch small movies while driving, and the commuters beside them are "drenched in rain and dew"; some people take the walking ladder when changing trains, and stand on the left side of the expressway. A posture of "I drive this road"...

It's not a big deal, but it's more or less selfish and selfish.

Etiquette is the expression of respect for others' respect for one's own norms.

"Normal form of expression", such as driving on the right side, men should walk on the left side of the elderly, children, and women, because the left side is the outer side, in case there is a cyclist who is very trendy, it will hit you instead of hitting them , This is the gentlemanly demeanor a man should have.

"Respect" is to make it convenient for others, not for one's own convenience. In a private car, there are many people sitting in the back row. In order to get into the car from the right door, I must first climb inside like a dog instead of letting my friends climb.

Whether people like you or not depends on how comfortable you are with you, not how good you are.

"Convenience with others" that you need to pay attention to when applying for a job

When sending a job search email, you should pay attention to at least two details.

> > First, the title. >

"Resume" is a no-brainer, at least it should be written as "Applying for Java Programmer", indicating the position for which you are applying. If you have advantages, you can directly state it, such as "Applying for Java Programmer_Three years of work experience".

Other companies recruit dozens of positions, HR will be very happy to see that you are so considerate.

> > Second, resume. >

I have seen many resumes sent in wps format, which has nothing to do with patriotism. I mainly do not love you so much, and I will not install a software specially for you.

You are smarter, you should paste your resume in the body of the email, and I can read it as soon as I open it, saving trouble; there is a copy in the attachment, which is in general doc format, and I can save it as soon as I save it.

Making HR more troublesome is never good for you.

Write a resume, put personal hobbies and self-evaluation first, please, you are here to find a job, not a partner! It may take only ten seconds for HR to screen a resume. You should put the professional skills, work experience, honors and other things that can prove your strength that she wants to see first!

When you go to the interview, someone asks you if you have brought your resume, you take out a USB flash drive, "Can I trouble you to print a copy for me?" At this time, HR is really just polite to smile at you.

If you bring your resume and hand it to the other party, the text may be facing you. You should rotate it 180 degrees so that the text is facing the interviewer before handing it over. She can read it as soon as it is picked up. Instead of you handing it over, she has to rotate 180 degrees to see it!

"Respect Time" in Sales

Being punctual means keeping promises and keeping promises. Being late is never a trivial matter. It is disrespect for other people's time. If you have an appointment with a client, you should not be late, but you should not be too early either, which will affect other people's arrangements and cause inconvenience to them.

People who really have a sense of time are to arrive a little early, such as five minutes early, if they arrive too early, they will wait downstairs, and then go up after the time is almost up.

You are very respectful of other people's time, and others may be generous enough in return.

This is an era when harassing calls are flying all over the place. Someone wants to sell you a house, someone asks you if you want to borrow money, someone sells insurance to you... A lot of telemarketers are not smart enough to use the speakerphone when making calls for their own convenience. After picking up the phone, he has to take a few seconds to complete the action of picking up the phone before he starts selling to you...

sorry, your time is worthless, mine is precious, you deserve to be hung up in seconds! You deserve to be scolded!

A few days ago, a group friend chatted with me privately, promoting the company's products, I said, can you briefly introduce our product, my dear, send me a Word document... If you sell this way, this thing can be ordered It's like "you can find everything you ask in the document".

Dear, you need a few words to tell me, what problems can you help me solve, or what benefits can you bring me! You ask me, and you want me to explore and discover, isn't that a joke.

Exquisite sales behavior must be a high respect for customer time!

Only by making it convenient for customers, you have a chance!

Suffering is the most brain-enhancing, perhaps, they haven't eaten enough.

The moral threshold of owning a dog

If you are a dog owner, this text may cause you discomfort, please read it carefully.

Yano Koji, the Japanese said "Chinese people don't deserve to have dogs", and I agree with him.

Owning a dog is a very high moral threshold.

My daughter likes dogs very much and has wanted to keep a dog for a few years, but I don't think she has the ability to keep a dog based on her current age and other circumstances. The most basic thing to do when raising a dog is not to cause inconvenience to others.

Have you ever seen dog shit all over the neighborhood walking trails?

Have you ever seen a large dog running around without a chain?

Have you ever seen a dog pee in the elevator?

Of the ten dog owners, eight are unqualified, this is a very revealing thing. If you can't be a shit shoveling officer, try not to keep a dog, it's convenient for yourself and disgusting others.

When my daughter was young, she was playing with her classmates in the community. A large dog ran over without a chain and scared the child. I told the owner of the dog a few words, but he was not happy, saying that his dog would not bite.

At that time, I was angry. If you are reasonable, we will be reasonable, but there are regulations on keeping dogs, what are you talking about? If you can let this dog call you daddy, I believe it won't bite, otherwise it's useless to talk about it? You call it a son, you treat it as a friend, but never forget that it is a dog, your son won't bite, and your friend won't urinate anywhere.

There is one more thing, which is particularly revealing of the nature, that is, driving. I believe that friends who drive will feel the same way.

How much inconvenience did you cause to others for your own convenience?

When I was learning to drive, the coach said that the moment you put your hand on the steering wheel, the whole world is stupid in your eyes, pedestrians are stupid, bicycles are stupid, front and rear cars are stupid... except yourself on the road, you are all stupid. The world returns to normal when your hands are off the wheel again, which is the quality of a qualified driver.

Convenience with others is convenient for yourself. If your convenience comes at the expense of others' inconvenience, it is shameful in itself.

Kant once said: "There are two most important things in the world, one is the starry sky above our heads, and the same is the moral code in our hearts".

A blind man was walking with a lantern at night, and a passerby asked him strangely, "You are blind, and lanterns are of no use to you. Why do you still use lanterns? Aren't you afraid of wasting lamp oil?" After hearing what he said, he replied slowly, "Because I'm walking in the dark, people often can't see me, and I'm easily knocked down, but I walk with a lantern. Although the light can't help me see the road ahead, it can help me see the road ahead. Let others see me so I don't get knocked over by others."

You should make other people's lives better because of your presence.

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