Should you borrow money from leaders when you encounter difficulties?

> > I have been working in this place for 5 years. Recently, because my family is not well-off, my brother is still in school, and my mother is not in good health. I want to ask the leader to advance 8,000 yuan. Know how to speak? >

Borrowing money is a matter of caution. In theory, it is necessary to separate relatives and distances, and borrow money according to relationships.

For example, if your family is in difficulty now, generally speaking, we should first take care of borrowing money from relatives and friends , aunts and aunts, best friends, buddies and sisters, and borrow from those who are closer to you. Borrowing money is an interpersonal behavior that requires strong trust. Blood relationship comes first. As the saying goes, blood is thicker than water, and family love is one of the strongest trust relationships.

A friend who can be called a brother is the second. Frankly speaking, a friend who cannot borrow money is not a good friend, because your business is not his business, for example, your hair is small. There are also some strong relationships, such as those who went to the window together, those who carried guns together, and those who shared the stolen goods together...

Even relatives and friends may feel frustrated when borrowing money. They may really have no money, or they may be afraid that you will not pay it back, or will not pay it back in a while.

Nowadays, people are afraid: standing to borrow money, kneeling to ask for debt. Money, when it is borrowed, is a love, and when it is taken back, it is an enemy.

Therefore, unless absolutely necessary, do not borrow money easily; if relatives and friends are not working, try not to borrow money from leaders. You need to assess how close you are to your leadership and whether you can speak up about it. There is not necessarily a direct link between the length of the job and the relationship with the leadership.

Furthermore, you are not actually managing the boss to borrow money, but the boss borrowing money, because you want to advance from the company. In this special case, the actual decision-making power rests with the boss, not the boss.

You have talked to the leader, and the leader should also ask the boss for instructions. Whether the boss will agree or not basically depends on his approval of you, his judgment on your past work performance, and his expectations for your future development. If you have made a lot of contributions to the company in the past five years, the possibility of the boss agreeing to this is very high, otherwise, it is hanging.

Since the dilemma is such, it is good to explain the whole story clearly when you open your mouth, expressing the hope that the leader can help.

In addition, you said to pay by installments, how exactly? Better to express them together.

You can't repay 4,000 yuan in one month and finish it in two months! The company can't not give you a penny, you can't do this salary, and you can't deduct the five insurances and one housing fund (personal part).

What's more, you can't maintain a basic living without a salary. Paying back 2,000 yuan a month and paying it off in four months may be an acceptable choice for both parties. The cycle is too long, and it seems insincere.

In fact, I personally recommend that you can use a credit card, 8,000 yuan, and try not to borrow money...