I am about to graduate, and my parents want me to go home and develop. What should I do as a child?

> > My parents felt that I was too far from home and would not let me stay in Hebei. Moreover, the education pressure in Hebei is too great, and there is no vacation. I want to work in the county where I go home and be able to accompany them. I thought about going back, but I was a little unwilling, and wanted to go to a big city. do not know what to do with it? Can you all give me some advice? >

Parents are here, not far to travel, travel must be well.

My hometown is in the Northeast, and I graduated as a drifter. I live in Daqing City, Heilongjiang Province. I am a child of the oil field. People of my parents' age attach great importance to the job of iron rice bowl, and they don't want me to go out and hang out, thinking that it is not a serious job.

But I studied computer, and back to a closed state-owned enterprise, there is basically no place to use it. And my parents are both workers, not officials. I rely on myself to work with state-owned enterprises. I am not good at stalking horses, so I don’t think there is much development.

After comprehensive consideration, I decided to go to Beijing to make a foray.

I think, whether or not to go back to your hometown, you need to figure out your career development, what kind of environment you need, and what kind of expectations you have for your future. This is very important.

What if you go back to your home county and can't find a suitable job?

Companionship is very important, but financial conditions are also very important. After thinking about it, one day my parents are old and sick, and they also need money to pay. Not to mention the improvements it can make to their current lives.

I am still in Beijing, my parents come two or three times a year, and each time I stay for more than a month, I will go back every year for the New Year, and my wife and children will also go back for two or three weeks during the summer vacation. Compared with being together every day, the problems of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, etc., this state is not bad.

I have also tried my parents to live in Beijing all the time, they are not used to it nor like it. I bought a 150-square-meter house for them in their hometown, with a lake and a park not far away; I also bought a seaside house in Guangxi, where you can go there when the weather is cold in the north to change the environment. From a companion point of view, I think it's fine.

Moreover, this is not a one-shot deal, you can go for a few years, develop well, and then go back. At this stage, your professional skills are not strong enough, and it is difficult to find good opportunities when you go back. But a few years later, it was different.

I am a junior who has been working in Beijing for a few years. Now I am back in my hometown. I am a technical partner of a company.