4 kinds of colleagues worthy of deep friendship, noble people who can make your career, don't miss it
I remember there was a topic some time ago: "Can colleagues be friends?"
Some people think that he can, because his current good friend is a former colleague, and some people think that he can't, because he has been betrayed by his colleague once.
In fact, everyone's opinions are mostly related to what kind of colleagues they meet. We can't choose what kind of colleagues to work with, but we can choose what kind of colleagues we have a close relationship with.
Today, Brother Dong recommends four kinds of colleagues who are worthy of deep friendship. No matter whether we have become friends with them or not, as long as we get along with them more, we can make ourselves a better person.
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Treat people with sincerity
Some people have misunderstood the meaning of high EQ, they always like to exaggerate, greet many people, and secretly feel that they have excellent EQ. In fact, it feels very smooth and unreliable.
And there are some people who can make you feel very comfortable while being sincere.
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A netizen who read it on the Internet said that he complained about his work casually, and his colleague was obviously complaining like himself at the time, but he turned around and stabbed himself at the leader's side.
Later, I changed a company. Once a customer made things difficult for me, I subconsciously complained again. Because of the previous experience, I saw a colleague next to me and thought that I would be stabbed again.
Unexpectedly, the colleague said to him with a smile: "This, I have encountered it before, in fact, you can...".
In this way, the colleague taught him his own experience, and said that he was actually doing better than he was at that time, and he had to work hard.
And just like that, they became good friends.
Whether it is in life or in the workplace, people who treat others with sincerity are always worthy of our deep friendship.
They will not deliberately say things that cater to you, but will give their opinions sincerely and well-meaningly to wake you up when you are confused.
Remember, stay away from villains who like to be aggressive, and spend more time with colleagues who treat others with sincerity.
4 kinds of colleagues worthy of deep friendship, noble people who can make your career, don't miss it
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Public and private distinction
Public and private are clearly the principle of doing things in the workplace.
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Let me tell you a story from my personal experience. I once went to a friend's company to find him. Because my friend was not finished, I was waiting there. Maybe the sound insulation of the office environment was not good. Through the glass door, I heard the voice of the meeting next door. A girl should be a junior leader, and she is scolding another girl very seriously, and everyone listens quietly.
When my friend took me to dinner later, I saw the two girls talking and laughing just now, and they even greeted their friends.
I was shocked by their public-private attitude, but more of an appreciation.
In fact, there are still a small number of people like them. I often see some people in the workplace. Because of some work, the relationship between colleagues has become very poor, and they usually don't even say hello to and from get off work.
However, those who have a clear distinction between public and private are often calm-headed, what should be done and what should not be done, have their own principles, have a decent style, and will not avenge private revenge.
When you work with someone like that, even if you don't become good friends, you don't have to worry about him stabbing you in the back.
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Proper behavior
It's not just the friends we usually make. If the colleagues who work together are not good, it is not worth our deep friendship at all.
A friend who came to consult asked him that he had just graduated, and some colleagues around him taught him that the shortcut for promotion and salary increase is to learn to opportunistically and take credit for others. You will also be able to flatter the leaders and say what the leaders like to hear.
Brother Dong feels that such three views are not right, and colleagues who will do anything to do it must stay away from them and not be with them.
In the workplace, we must be with people who work hard and have good conduct. Only by improving one's comprehensive ability and creating value for the company is the correct way to get promotion and salary increase.
4 kinds of colleagues worthy of deep friendship, noble people who can make your career, don't miss it
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helpful
We can often find that people who are well-liked in the workplace are basically willing to help others.
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A friend said before that he has a colleague, because he is relatively skilled in his work, so new people often ask him for advice.
Once I met a colleague who needed to ask for leave in an urgent matter, but the work was not completed. He also took the initiative to undertake the work of the colleague, so that the colleague could handle things with peace of mind.
It is because of this helpful behavior that he has also been exposed to many skills outside his own work, and has inadvertently exercised his more comprehensive work ability.
When the leader prepares to promote a person to be a supervisor in the department, almost all colleagues want to choose him by their real names.
Working with a helpful colleague will not only help you, but you will also help others under his influence. And a team that can help each other will definitely grow quickly.
The so-called people who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black. What kind of people do you work with, you will be infected by your ears and eyes, and slowly contaminate their habits.
When you are new to the workplace, you must choose to learn from excellent colleagues. They are all worthy of deep friendship and outstanding people. In some cases, they will affect the trajectory of your life and guide you towards a more correct path.
Well, today's sharing is here, I hope it will help you.