Realize these three points, your life may be able to hang up, without these three points your life will definitely hang up
In the past two days, I have communicated with friends who started businesses, and mentioned a few problems that young people ignore today. Be able to deeply understand a few points and regard them as the criteria for doing things and being a person. Your life will not be too bad.
Listed here first, and explained one by one later:
Appreciation vs Depreciation
Simple vs. Complex
Rational vs Emotional
The above three points, with the first point as the core point and the other as the criterion, can be of great help to you whether you are working or starting a business!
Realize these three points, your life may be able to hang up, without these three points your life will definitely hang up
Appreciation vs Depreciation
Everyone's first impression of these two words should be investment, whether the house you bought has increased in value, and whether the wealth management product you bought is also increasing in value. These are the most basic understanding of these two words. But today we are talking about the appreciation and depreciation of people and careers.
To put it simply, everyone will face these two problems at different stages, and then they will keep switching. Appreciation, depreciation.
- The appreciation and depreciation of things
Whether a thing is worth doing depends on whether it can add value to you. Many people become slack after working for a few years, and can no longer be motivated to work hard.
Realize these three points, your life may be able to hang up, without these three points your life will definitely hang up
I have met many such people around me. They always complain at work, saying that there is no technical content to do this, and they are doing a lot of repetitive work every day. But they don't realize the so-called appreciation and depreciation, they are very disgusted with it. As soon as I have a chance, I think of escaping. If you can’t work, you won’t do it. If you can be lazy, you will be lazy. Your own value is constantly being consumed.
Most of the people in this state are in a state of devaluation. If you don’t realize that it is difficult to change your current situation, the best way is to go out and link with those who are better than yourself. Participate in the circles that are better than yourself. Take a look at the status of other people's work. Meetings and exchanges at this time will be very helpful for you to change the status quo.
- Social appreciation and depreciation
A very small number of people who are in a state of devaluation will force themselves to seek breakthroughs, but the worse the state of most people, the less willing they are to get out of their circle. The more stupid you are, the more you can't stand other excellent people talking about experience and sharing in front of you. People who form a closed loop prematurely are actually a kind of restraint on the self.
Realize these three points, your life may be able to hang up, without these three points your life will definitely hang up
The door to your happy life was closed, but you didn't want to go out, and even closed that window. The ultimate result of this behavior is only one who restricts himself to his own small circle.
Because the pace of life is very fast now, and many people's time is very limited. Once they have time, they want to lie down and rest at home and watch video entertainment, but I don't know if you feel this way, the more you put yourself Locked in an inherently small circle, the more distracted you become. Friday afternoon should be the happiest time of the week, because the weekend is here, but since Saturday night, many people began to worry about the work that started on Monday.
It is because you are currently in a state of depreciation. The weekend is an opportunity to increase your value through socializing, but you waste it in vain. Now there are various offline exchange meetings on weekends, why not go out and recharge yourself? For example, the offline Fan Deng reading club and the old friends club. Not the kind of leisure party that eats and drinks.
Maybe you will say, when you go out for entertainment, do your friends have to consider whether to add value to yourself? It must be too utilitarian. This is not utilitarian but to keep adding value to yourself.
As I mentioned the day before yesterday, the poor have many friendships, and the rich look more at the pros and cons. The friend below has a great answer.
Both the rich and the poor have friendship, but the rich have more interests to adjust and take care of, while the poor don’t have so many interests, so the state manifested is that the poor value friendship, and the rich value pros and cons.
What we ordinary people should think more about is how to expand our business like rich people and add value to ourselves instead of just doing things with our only friendship!
complex vs simple
How to understand this, you will find that most people who can make achievements in a certain category belong to the simple type. His simplicity is not a simple mind but a simple thinking, which can automatically filter out some unnecessary burdens. Simple people don't go to the horns. They can always see the essence of things quickly when they look at problems. When doing work, they will also directly hit the theme and will not be around the corner.
There are too many people who are misled by some workplace books on the market, deliberately practice their so-called interpersonal communication skills, and think about expressing in the best and most appropriate way.
I used to have a colleague who was like this, and every time you communicated with him, you would find it very difficult. After the communication, the whole person will explode with anger. He is very strict, so strict to a very common thing, the most common kind of communication in work. He will express in different ways, and he is very good at buttoning words. Why did he develop this habit? It's because he read a book about workplace communication. To put it bluntly, the most important point for him is that when there is a problem at work, he can be very effective in throwing the blame without involving himself.
Realize these three points, your life may be able to hang up, without these three points your life will definitely hang up
With such a complicated person, how could he possibly improve himself? Just dealing with these trivial things has exhausted him, let alone self-improvement.
I found that many entrepreneurs are actually simple types of people, with clear goals and simple logic, so people can see more sincerity. A few days ago, I participated in an entrepreneurial incubation class and met a Mr. Liu. He is a company that does company registration, trademark registration, and also has accounting services. During the one-afternoon class, he used the half-hour of two class breaks to get almost all the information of dozens of classmates, and he spoke humorously, without turning corners. Just to see if there are opportunities to collaborate with other entrepreneurs.
When I communicated with him during dinner, he said that actually participating in the course is one aspect, and on the other hand, I think my clients can be found more accurately here. You see, this is the standard simple type of person, who decides the crowd, develops the business and strikes directly. It is simple and direct and will not waste too much time on each other.
Rational vs Emotional
These are two very common words, but they represent two groups, the social elite and the general public. Social elites are mostly rational people, while most of us are perceptual people, because perceptuality makes us always use personal emotions as the starting point for dealing with problems, rather than values, when we face specific problems.
This leads to a feeling of being approachable to emotional people, and a little scary to rational people. When faced with anything, they will think very rationally. Such people are difficult to be deceived, and they will not be changed by the surrounding environment, and they will not learn from others to follow suit.
Realize these three points, your life may be able to hang up, without these three points your life will definitely hang up
Most of these people belong to the social elite. In fact, we can easily understand why those big coffees do not like to be invited by ordinary people. It is not because they are not honored, but because their time is limited, it is impossible to waste all the most precious time on No need for a party hill. However, when we go there, we often see many entrepreneurs and celebrities voluntarily participate in public welfare activities, and even subsidize money to participate in activities.
Are they stupid? Really not stupid, can be said to be too smart. The sense of social responsibility is one part, but the other part is that although these activities cannot bring them direct economic benefits, they have brought publicity to their enterprises and their image has been improved again. What they earn is fame, what they earn is personal influence, and what they earn is fan cohesion, so this is definitely a super value-added thing.