Confused, how to solve this problem?

Confused, how to solve this problem?

Recently, I saw that many friends are asking similar questions. I wrote an article today, hoping to help friends who have a similar situation!

1. I was very confused when I just graduated. I don’t know what I can do?

The most critical reason for this problem is that when you were in college, you didn't plan your career well. Not even one direction. Of course, it is not denied that some people have actually made plans, but after interviewing some companies, they did not get an offer. Even some companies don't even have the opportunity to interview. At this time, we will have doubts about whether our previous plans are reasonable. Human nature, when things are going well, our eyes are always looking forward and generally do not examine our own practices and behaviors. A few suggestions are as follows:

You really don’t have to say that you have to be the right major when you join the company, and no one says you have to find the right job. Unless you are very interested in the major of your university, there are some relatively majors, such as law, doctor, nursing and other majors, which tend to find jobs in this major after graduation. Other majors really don't have to worry about whether to choose this major or not.

How to judge whether a job you are engaged in has prospects, first of all, of course, the salary package. This does not mean the salary package you just joined. It depends on the salary level of the old professionals working in this industry. If Generally speaking, after working for five years and ten years, it is still about 10,000 yuan (of course, it needs to be divided into regions and analyzed according to the level of your own region), which is almost not very good. After all, after five years and ten years, your template will be those old workplaces. people.

How to tell if you like your job. After all, many times when we just entered the workplace, whether we like it or not or whether it is worth it to persist in an industry. First of all, we judge whether we are interested in the work we are doing at the moment, throw off our arms to do the work at the moment, whether there is the kind of always wanting to do it beautifully, and the more and more energetic it is. When you enter an industry, you will definitely encounter problems, but whether you like it or not depends on how you face the problems you encounter in your work. If you like this job, you will find ways to solve it. Most people don’t like it. Will choose to escape, dare not do it if you can, and drag it if you can. If it's the latter, then I suggest trying other industries as soon as possible, rather than waiting to die, it's better to go out and see other jobs. For fresh students or freshmen in the 18th class, don't give up naked, remember to ride a donkey to find a horse. If you have just graduated, if you have no experience, you can participate in social recruitment, and the difficulty factor is quite high. What's more, the current economic situation is not optimistic.

Finally, I would like to say one thing: when many people just graduated, they found that they were not optimistic after analyzing themselves. They said that they had neither specialties nor professional skills. They really didn’t know what they could do? In fact, you don't have to worry about this kind of doubt. Many people are so ordinary. Some people even write that they like listening to music and running when they write their interests on their resumes. There is nothing wrong with writing this way, but try to write about hobbies that are related to your work.

2. I have worked in the system for many years, but I always feel that I can see the end at a glance

Our parents always thought that being a civil servant and working in a government unit would not only save face in the family, but also have a very stable job. But to be honest, there is hardly any so-called stable job nowadays. A few days ago, a friend of mine said that he has been a police assistant for 7 or 8 years. If you don't want to do it, you want to come out and do business, and ask your friends to give him a trick. There is also a young lady who is a teacher and is also confused. In fact, not only these industries and these people, but if you ask the people around you, most of them will have doubts of one kind or another.

Every industry is like a mountain, and one industry does not know the difficulties of another, so everyone will be very envious of those who can find jobs that they are particularly interested in in a short period of time. Even if his current salary is not as high as yours, you will envy him, and envy that he is so busy with work every day that he still enjoys it, but you are very painful. So for such people, you have to try, don't think that I have been in this industry for three or four years, and I have no experience in other industries, shouldn't I start from 0, I think there is a saying Very good "I don't know what I want, but I know what I don't want!" If you don't know which line of business you really want in the future, but you know it's definitely not your current job, then start your "riding the donkey" The journey of looking for a horse”, the journey is very hard, but it must be very exciting.

3. Pain, the feeling of going to work is like going to the grave

First, analyze whether the pain is caused by your lack of ability or because you are really unwilling to do the current job. I used to have a colleague who was very funny. He complained every day that he didn’t want to go to work, but when he asked him what he wanted to do, he said he didn’t want to go to work and didn’t do anything. Look at Douyin and watch dramas, I only gave him four words "entertainment to death", and later he still complained that work was boring, watching him speak in such a painful way, even makes you feel that work is real Like going to the grave. Such a person had better stay away from him, he would not seek other ways to relieve his pain, but would only speak with his mouth. Some even say that going to work is boring every day, and it might be better to open a restaurant. Tian Tian said, as if he really wanted to be a boss, to see whether a person's words are credible or not depends on which direction his legs move.

Every day I shouted to start a business, but there was no action. I don't even know which direction to create. In fact, you can listen to it. His so-called entrepreneurship is just to numb himself and immerse himself in the fantasy that I will start a business in the future. It is impossible to act on this fantasy.

4. We will always encounter such and such difficulties in our lives. How to get rid of the predicament? If you want to break your head, it is better to execute it first and then think about it. Many people are so moved at night that they can’t sleep. At dawn, they seem to throw everything away. to the back of the head. The general direction is determined, let's talk about it! Action is the best medicine to solve anxiety and confusion.