When you were down and out, did you have friends by your side? Netizens' responses are disturbing
Life is hard, but with the help of friends, it can often be a lot easier. When we are proud of our lives, we will feel that everything is going well and that we have many friends. And when we are poor, do we still have friends around?
Xiao Zhao is in sales. Because of his outstanding performance and cheerful personality, he has become good friends with many people. Almost every week, Xiao Chen gets together with his friends. But one day, Xiao Zhao's company closed down, so he lost his job and stayed at home for a long time. At this time, Xiao Zhao felt that he was getting more and more lonely. No one cared about him, and no one was looking for him to party. He seemed to be forgotten by his friends.
Xiao Zhao feels that he gets along well with his friends, and he has many friends. But why do you have no friends when you are down and out? Xiao Zhao was very puzzled.
When you were down and out, did you have friends by your side? Netizens' responses are disturbing
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There are not a few people who have similar experiences. Many netizens have posted their own stories. After reading it, they are really heartbroken!
Netizen 1
I've been lonely for many years, I don't have a real friend, used to be full of friends every day, everyone seemed to be the closest to you with an iron fist, since the downfall, all disappeared out of thin air, and for several years, the phone almost never rang , then I changed the phone and slowly enjoyed my life without being disturbed, but found that I like loneliness more and more
netizen 2
I live abroad, and every time I come back, I am always full of friends, and the scenery is infinite. That's because I really don't need to bother my friends, some just have friends to accompany me to drink and revel. Suddenly one day my father was hospitalized with tuberculosis, but I couldn’t come back right away from abroad. At this time, no friends took the initiative to help me take care of my father. There must be good reasons, such as lack of time or fear of infection, etc. However, there is one person who has been in constant contact with but very few My girlfriend who toasted and had a drink together went to the hospital to visit my father every day, and often made dumplings to send to the hospital. She was laid off and has been working as a temporary worker. At this time, my circle of friends was reshuffled. Now I have a deep understanding. Those The friend who drank too much and hugged me had disappeared from my sight.
netizen 3
I'm going through it... Not only friends, but those closest to you will dislike you and stay away from you! In the past, I made some money by running a shop, and every day, a few friends and buddies around me, and when I asked me to borrow money, I always lent them immediately. Now that I'm in despair, I don't have any money when I ask them to borrow money, and I don't contact me very much. Instead, the invitations come when they get married. Of course, I am also realistic, I did not go! After my relatives found out, I went to my mother and my younger brother despised himself, even a fool could see it! I used to be happy when I went to my mother's house, because every time I would give him hundreds of dollars to spend. Some time ago, I called my mother on WeChat to ask her something and ignored me, and her circle of friends was still posting pictures of her playing in Shanghai. I understood in an instant... All blocked and never contacted again
netizen 4
The rich have distant relatives in the mountains, and the poor have no one in the streets. My house used to be full of guests and friends. Later, my husband became seriously ill and the family was impoverished. Relatives did not recognize each other, and friends did not meet each other. To taste the sufferings of the world, to see the warmth and warmth of the world, the journey of life cannot be described.
netizen 5
No, because I have been down and out, owed hundreds of thousands of debts, and carried a suitcase on the street. My best friend took me in, and she gave me 10,000 living expenses first as pocket money. Another friend of mine who runs a hotel found out about my situation, bought me a plane ticket, flew to her city, and served as the general manager of the hotel for me, managing 109 rooms. She personally taught me how to manage a hotel. After years of struggle, I paid off my debts, and I am very grateful to them, they are my lifelong best friends!
Netizen 6
Completely correct. I have the deepest experience: a few years ago, when my life was going smoothly, there were friends gathering almost every day, almost every day for a banquet, and every night to sing songs; when I was down, my relatives and friends disappeared; my mobile phone used to be a hotline, but now my mobile phone is a decoration. In fact, this is also very good, quiet and leisurely, I just need to quietly wait for the opportunity to re-emerge, not my own, let it go away, I only cherish what belongs to me.
netizen 7
This is how life is. Just ask yourself, how many friends you can make friends with, as time goes by, you will find that you don't have one in the end
netizen 8
After resigning in May, I was going to start a business, but in the process, some unexpected things brought my life to a low point. After being sick for several months, I was alone in a rented house, and I didn’t tell my relatives and friends, not even my own family. It is said that it was the darkest period of extreme psychological loneliness and loneliness to spend every difficult day alone, it is really not easy to grow up the most lonely and helpless moment.
When you were down and out, did you have friends by your side? Netizens' responses are disturbing
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Many times, we feel that we have many friends, but often only when we are down and down, do you know that the people around you are people or dogs. As Mr. Gu Long said: "It's not a shame to find friends when you are in trouble. The real shame is that when you are in trouble, there are no friends to look for."