The less a person has a pattern, the more he likes to care about these three things. It is no wonder that nothing can be achieved.
What kind of achievements a person can achieve often has a lot to do with his pattern. The broader a person's pattern is, the more long-term he cares about things, and the more he can achieve his goals. And the smaller a person's structure is, the more things he cares about, and the easier it is to lose himself in the care. Under normal circumstances, the less a person has a pattern, the more he likes to care about these three things. It is no wonder that nothing can be accomplished.
- Calculate the front ======================
In an interview, the reporter asked Li Jiacheng's son Li Zekai, "What kind of secrets did your father Li Ka-shing teach you to make money?" Li Zekai replied: "My father never told me how to make money, but only taught me some principles of being a person and doing things. Father I told you that if you cooperate with others, if you can get 7 points and 8 points is reasonable, then our Li family can get 6 points." This is Li Ka-shing's way of doing things, he pays attention to " rather to lose yourself, Not bad for everyone ." Therefore, more and more people come to Li Ka-shing to do business.
There are some merchants who wish to earn all other people's money at one time, and even do anything to make money. In fact, this is often the performance of small patterns. Because the layout is small, we only focus on the immediate interests. As for the future, we will talk about it later. Doing business on the same street, some people quickly become big bosses, while others can only close down. Hu Xueyan, a "red -topped businessman" said: "The most important thing in doing business is vision. If you can see a province, you can do business in a province; if you can see the world, you can do business in the world; if you can see a foreign country, you can do business in a foreign country. " The bigger the people, the less they care about the small profits in front of them, and they know how to delay the satisfaction of the moment for the sake of long-term goals. But the smaller the pattern, the more concerned about the present, so it is no wonder that nothing can be accomplished.
- Comparing the pros and cons ==============================
In one job, Zhang Ting and Tan Min got a learning opportunity at the same time. However, this means that their wages are cut in half and there is no commission during their studies. Zhang Ting felt that it was too uneconomical to deduct half of her salary, and she had to study in a place she did not know well. The cost was too high, so she gave up. And Tan Min decisively chose to study. In Tan Min's view, the company can provide training and get paid, which is a good thing that falls from the sky. Two years later, Tan Min returned to the company after studying and became the project leader of the company directly, and the salary has doubled from the original basis. Although Zhang Ting works hard, she has only become a small leader of a department. Whether it is salary or resources, Tan Min completely crushes Zhang Ting. Zhang Ting was very upset, so she spoke ill of Tan Min everywhere, but was caught by the relevant department and fired directly.
In fact, the abilities of the two were not much different at the beginning, but the patterns of the two were quite different. Tan Min has a lot of heart. He knew what he wanted from the beginning. When he learned that there was a training opportunity, he chose it without hesitation, so the road of development became wider and wider. And Zhang Ting's psychology of gain and loss is too heavy, which led to making wrong decisions in the early stage, and making mistakes and mistakes in the later stage because of jealousy. The pattern is really too small. Tagore said: " If you cry because you lose the moon, you will also lose the stars." If you care about gains and losses, you will lose your future, and if you care about small money, you will lose big money. The smaller the pattern, the more like to care about gains and losses.
- Computational evaluation ===========================
Xiaoqi has just graduated from university and has two jobs to choose from, one is HR in a large company and the other is sales in a small company. Logically speaking, the HR of large companies will have more development prospects, and the contacts are also social elites, so it should be more worthy of choice. But Xiaoqi chose to do sales. The reason is that family members evaluate HR as "pimping", and sales are really their own work.
I have to admit that humans, as social animals, cannot completely ignore the evaluation of others. However, others don't know that much about your situation. Even, some people will deliberately misinterpret you with a special purpose. No matter how careful you are in your words and actions, there will always be someone who distorts your meaning, and those who have a pattern choose to ignore it. If you can't even face your true self, you can only live in the comments of others. This will only pull his ability line lower and lower, and even lower into the dust.
People who really have a big picture have a clear purpose. They know very well what they want and what kind of life they want to live in the future. Their minds are placed on the future, constantly sublimating themselves. Just like a certain line: " If a person has a higher mountain in his heart that he wants to climb, then he will not care about the mud under his feet. " Evaluation. The smaller the pattern is, the opposite is true. It is no wonder that nothing can be accomplished.