People with high emotional intelligence don't say these 3 words when participating in an important wine party. If you don't want to offend people, learn to shut up
In our daily life and work, I believe that everyone will participate in some wine and dinner parties. When we gather with friends and family, we often drink some wine. It doesn’t matter how much we drink at this time, because everyone will forgive you. . But if you participate in a wine party at work, you cannot easily say many words, otherwise you will easily offend people.
Especially for newcomers in the workplace, drinking with customers and company leaders when they first went to the workplace often leaves a bad impression on the other party because of saying the wrong thing and doing the wrong thing, which hinders their work. In fact, no matter what occasion we are in, we need to know more or less the rules of the wine table, and know what to say and what not to say. Don't say too much about these three sentences at the wine table. Friends who often participate in social events should read more:
First, don't talk big at the wine table. Some friends are quite modest before drinking, but after drinking too much, they start to feel high, don't know what their surname is, and like to talk big at this time. In front of leaders and customers, it is very taboo to promise something easily when the other party says something, but it cannot be realized in the end. I remember a previous experience on the Internet. A new employee of a company said at the wine table that he could drink a few tables of people before. After that, the people at the wine table were not convinced and poured him to the ground and couldn’t get up. Since then, The employee no longer dared to say that he could drink.
Second, don't say things that attack others. The wine table is a place for exchanging interests. In order to please their leaders or suppress their competitors in the company, some employees often say that their colleagues or a certain leader are not doing well, and they will slander some in front of customers. Colleagues, saying this may be effective in the short term, but in the long run, it is easy for others to think that this person is not good enough, but it is not worth the loss.
Third, don't say malicious words to persuade you to drink. Participating in a wine party at work is different from the usual gatherings in life. You can drink whatever you want with your friends, and you can drink as much as you like. However, the wine party at work often involves some interests, such as the wine table. It is often a place to talk about business. At this time, you have to be sensible. Don’t always want to drink others’ wine. When you see that people drink too much and can’t drink any more, you must know how to stop. If you can’t see the form, use some words to stimulate people. If you drink alcohol, it is very likely that the other party will lose his temper on the spot.
What other things do you think you can't say at the wine table? How do you usually cope at the wine table? Welcome everyone to communicate in the comment area!