In the workplace, the most frightening thing is that there are fewer and fewer friends who can tell the truth
The day before yesterday, a friend in the workplace complained to Lao Wang that after she told her secret to a friend she always thought was a very good friend, she was gossiped by others. She suddenly realized that it was the best friend she had always thought betrayed her.
This workplace friend was very angry and helpless, so he asked Lao Wang to chat. Lao Wang told this workplace friend that there are indeed some people who regard the trust of others in him as the origin of gossip. When you meet such people, don't argue with them, just forgive. Because, they're not worth fighting for.
In the workplace, the most frightening thing is that there are fewer and fewer friends who can tell the truth
Also, the day before yesterday, a friend in the magic capital told Lao Wang that the higher the position, the more he found that there were fewer friends around him who could tell the truth. , I am afraid of misleading others, and also afraid of being maliciously magnified by others, so my heart is too tired.
There is also a company executive who complained about the company while drinking, expressing his views and dissatisfaction with some irregular operations in the company, but was called by the company HRVP to talk the next day and paid him 2 Monthly salary, let him resign voluntarily. This friend reluctantly told Pharaoh that he knew he was wrong and should not discuss the company in private, let alone complain in front of other colleagues. Lao Wang listened and said to him, that's right, people in the workplace must do:
- Don't discuss and complain about the company in private, especially in front of your colleagues. Maybe your boss will know the content of your conversation before your words are over.
The company's non-standard operation is the company's business. As long as you are not allowed to do illegal things, you can do it. Just like a workplace friend in Magic City consulted Pharaoh, saying that she was an HR from a Fortune 500 company and did everything in a standard way, but she just joined a company in Magic City and found that this new company can do anything. Walking on the edge of the law, asked Lao Wang if he wanted to stay. Lao Wang clearly told her that as long as the company does not let you do illegal things, you can work boldly. Besides, many businesses already like to walk on the edge of the law.
Do your job well, don't make enemies everywhere. Don't forget that the origin of any political struggle in the workplace is profit. In the workplace, as long as you do not take advantage of others and the company, and there is no conflict of interests, you may reduce many workplace conflicts and struggles.
Lao Wang has always believed that the workplace is a river and lake, and where there are rivers and lakes, there are interests and contradictions. Therefore, the workplace is a very complex social ecology, and it is also a place where many interests are unclear. It is the existence of such interests that leads to fewer and fewer friends around you who can speak the truth.
In the workplace, the most frightening thing is that there are fewer and fewer friends who can tell the truth
Now that I understand that in the workplace, there are fewer and fewer friends who can tell the truth. How can you find friends who can tell the truth? According to Lao Wang's observation of the workplace and the telephone or offline 1-on-1 consultation of nearly 200 people, Lao Wang believes that:
- Abandon unnecessary low-quality social circles, find people who are tasteful, ambitious, and not stingy, and be friends with them. In the workplace, the most stupid thing is that although there are many friends, there are very few people who can speak the truth. Why would such phenomenon happen? Lao Wang believes that this has something to do with your social circle and the scale and standard for choosing friends. A friend in the workplace told Pharaoh that a relative of his family has many friends around him every day, drinking and bragging together, but when he was sick and needed money, there were no friends around him, and he even went to the hospital to see him. people are in a state of extinction.
Lao Wang told this workplace friend that these phenomena happened to his relatives because he had been in a low-quality social circle and had not chosen friends and partners who were good friends. Lao Wang believes that when people are in the workplace, it is enough to have a few friends who can tell the truth and people who are willing to help each other sincerely.
In the workplace, the most frightening thing is that there are fewer and fewer friends who can tell the truth
One of the greatest abilities of people in the workplace is to learn to know people, to judge and find friends they can associate with by knowing people. When it comes to knowing people, it is really a university question. It is difficult to know people, and there are too few people who can really recognize people. How to identify people? Just like a case mentioned by Lao Wang in the previous paragraph, after endorsement by a friend of Lao Wang, he introduced a person who wanted to change jobs to chat with Lao Wang. During the chat, Lao Wang found that his eyes kept looking around. At the same time, as long as there is a little movement outside, he will go to see it, and he feels very panicked. When Lao Wang discovered this phenomenon, he gave up communicating with this person. The whole tells Pharaoh from his eyes that he is an untrustworthy, social and honest person. Judging from this alone, you might say, is a bit arbitrary. Pharaoh thinks it is not arbitrary. From then on, Lao Wang also had doubts about the person who endorsed him, and thought deeply about it... Because Lao Wang believes in the law that people gather together by like and things are divided into groups.
Through the cooperation of many interests, you can further judge whether the person you are looking for is a friend you can associate with or tell the truth. Don't forget that money is the best value for testing a friend's hypocrisy. Just like last year, when Lao Wang chatted with an investor friend, he said, what is friendship? The so-called friendship is to achieve and deepen the friendship between each other through the interests of each other, so that the friendship will last longer. The subtext of this sentence is that to judge whether a person is good or bad, whether it is worth interacting with, can only be detected through interests. There is also a saying that whether a friend is trustworthy can only be judged through money, and the rest are nonsense.
In the workplace, the most frightening thing is that there are fewer and fewer friends who can tell the truth
Just like a friend told Lao Wang, he said that he met many friends around him, and when they didn't have any common interests or interests, they all had a good relationship. Indeed it is. Sometimes, it is not our poor judgment ability, but because the other party hides too deeply. Sometimes, it is because we are too kind and unwilling to label others as untrustworthy and unworthy of telling the truth. Therefore, only testing and judging a person through interests is the most reliable choice. But Lao Wang reminds everyone in the workplace not to deliberately test human nature, but to do a reasonable, reasonable, and natural inspection.