How to reject unreasonable demands of colleagues at work? Learn these 3 tricks, thank you for knowing
In the workplace, our daily affairs are relatively busy. It is not bad to be able to finish the work at hand for 8 hours a day, but sometimes colleagues come to you for help. Whatever you say, I will help you easily, for fear of encountering unreasonable demands made by some colleagues. Then we must learn these three tricks.
The first move is to refuse directly. Because it is your colleagues who are looking for your help, everyone is equal, and there is no scruples. There is a premise here. If it is a more powerful colleague, he will definitely think about it from your perspective before asking you for help. If this colleague makes unreasonable demands, it means that his pattern is like this. We don't need to consider any face issues, we can simply refuse.
The second trick, euphemism. Some people are mild-mannered, and if they are really embarrassed to directly reject others, then use a more euphemistic way. For example, you are busy with work, and a colleague comes to you for help with a plan, and you say that you have something to do now. Yes, you can also make a plan for you, but you have to wait until you are done. If a colleague is in a hurry, she certainly won't wait that long for you to finish.
The third measure is value exchange. Let’s talk about a very realistic thing. Everyone works hard in the company and often works overtime in order to get more wages. The same is true for the friendship between colleagues. Everyone is more willing to play with people who can help them. A very simple example, the company has a group of new employees, who don’t understand anything and need to learn from scratch, then these new employees will definitely be intimidated when they come to an unfamiliar environment and see unfamiliar people. The employee greets you very enthusiastically, because he hopes to be taken care of by you. If he has been in the company for a long time, his attitude towards you will definitely become colder. This is because he has established a firm foothold and has As a partner, you don't have to keep pestering you anymore, and restore your "original face".