Workplace taboo: Judging people by their appearance
Many people judge people by their appearance, which eventually leads to passing by a lot of opportunities and is heartbroken. How can we not judge people by their appearance? First listen to Lao Wang tell two stories:
story one
A local tyrant, A, went to Beijing to buy a house. Because he was not so particular about his clothes, he was naturally attracted by many "snobby" people who judged people by their appearance, looked down on them, and finally passed away with wealth.
Boss A went to Beijing to buy a house, worried that his money would be robbed, so he took a dilapidated fish scale bag full of cash and came to a real estate in the imperial capital to inquire about the house. Everyone knows that the house price in the imperial capital is more expensive than platinum. How can those beautiful and "snobby" sales ladies look down on an old man with a worn-out fish scale bag, let alone buy a house in the imperial capital? Don't look at this old man.
The old man was walking around the sand table by himself, and was seen by a down-to-earth career consultant lady Zhang Li, who had no vanity. more than half an hour. After the local tyrant boss learned about the situation, he opened the old fish scale bag and said, buy three layers first, here is 5 million in cash, as a positioning, and make up all the remaining money within three days.
When the old man finished speaking and opened the shabby fish scale bag to pay the deposit, those beautiful sales ladies who didn't look at him just now were stunned, some cried, and some slapped themselves in the face because they were rude Calculate it, the commission for buying a three-story building is tens of millions.
story two
The day before yesterday, when I was drinking tea with several big e-commerce players in the imperial capital, it was revealed that the father of JD.com boss Liu Qiangdong came to Beijing to play from his hometown in the countryside of Suqian, Jiangsu. The company sits and rests for a while. When the old man approached JD.com, he was stopped by the security guard and the lady at the front desk, and he would not let him in. The old man wanted to sit on the sofa in the hall and was rejected, but he had no choice but to find Qiangdong. The school girl-level lady didn't ask indiscriminately, and said that she didn't know which Qiangdong to look for, but it wasn't the big boss anyway. The old man drove him away, and the old man had to call his son Liu Qiangdong. Afterwards, Liu Qiangdong came to pick up the old man in person. The staff below were dumbfounded. The security guards lined up to greet him.
These two stories let us know that the consequences of judging people by their appearance in the workplace are either a brush with wealth or fate, and maybe they will lose their jobs.
This reminds Lao Wang of some jokes in the workplace:
Some people, although driving a sports car, may owe tens of millions to the bank, followed by a group of debt collectors;
Some people use private cars to commute to and from get off work every day, but in fact they just call them "special cars";
Some people wear ordinary clothes and look very diaosi, but they may be the CEO of an IT company;
In the workplace, how to avoid judging people by their appearance?
Learn to respect others, don't look at people with tinted glasses, and don't be arrogant. Remember, there are days outside the sky, and there are people outside people.
Learn to observe, listen to the world with your own heart, and see the world with your own eyes. Remember, you can't let your eyes deceive yourself, but use your "heart" to understand the world.
Everyone cares about different things. Never judge others with your own thoughts, and never underestimate anyone with your eyes. Money cannot measure a person's status, let alone a person's worth. Compared with money, what we should envy more is the cultural accomplishment and knowledge of others.
Lao Wang finally suggested that in the workplace, be a person who is polite, connotative, cultivated, and understands the rules, and more importantly, be a person who knows how to respect others!