Wife's salary is 3 times mine, should we break up?

Lao Yang has been particularly troubled recently. The reason is very simple. His wife Qiao Lei has been promoted and raised again. In this way, Qiao Lei's salary is three times that of Lao Yang.

In fact, Lao Yang's conditions are not bad, he has a stable job, 10K after tax, and the most important thing is that he is a warm man, careful and good at cooking, but Lao Yang is also a good and strong man. He feels that his dignity and status are affected by it. threatened, so he found me.

There is quite the meaning of "break up if it's a big deal, and I can support myself", so Lao Wang can't help but have a sense of sight of a broken-hearted girl singing "Happy Breakup" on KTV. After a girl is cheated by a handsome, rich and handsome boyfriend, she often eats chicken soup. Meng Xin was angry and vowed to be self-reliant.

Today, with so much social pressure, there are very few women who can have Qingfu as a full-time wife at home. They squeeze the subway together with men in the morning, and compete with men in the workplace with strong players. A large wave of elites has emerged in the workplace. Women, they are intellectual, elegant, and smiling, and they kill and make decisions cleanly, leaving many men far behind. And so the men who have always been dominant feel threatened... and even families have parted ways because of this.

In May of this year, the news reported that there was a couple from Beijing drifting north. The wife earned more than 10,000 yuan a month working in a foreign company, and her husband was working in a small company. Thousands of yuan, in the materialistic city of Beijing, they live an ordinary and simple life. But at the beginning of 2016, the two suddenly decided to divorce. Since they were going back to their hometown for the Chinese New Year, they didn't want to worry their parents, so they discussed it after they came back.

The reporter interviewed the couple. It turns out that the wife is very busy every day at work in a foreign company. She has to properly handle the relationship with the superiors or subordinates, and she also needs to beware of some small tricks by colleagues because of jealousy or dislike of herself. , Every day when I come home, I am exhausted, my face no longer has the bright smile and bright eyes when I just got married, and I often lose my temper, but as a husband, I don't know why, and I don't know it includes Do not understand, do not understand the beginning of the conflict, a little time passed, the conflict became bigger and bigger, and quarrels became commonplace!

Although Lao Wang is concerned about the workplace, he should not gossip about other people's housework, but people in the workplace are first and foremost people, and they have families that need love. Therefore, as long as the people in the workplace are concerned and can share their worries and solve problems for the people in the workplace, it is Lao Wang's duty to do so. chatter.

Now let's talk about the high salary of the wife. Once the salary of the wife is high, the straight man will have cancer. If you want to break up or divorce, you need to find self-esteem and a sense of superiority. Woman, your wife, she is good in everything, she has no major flaws, she has never done anything wrong to you, and she is very good at making money and helping you relieve your burden. You don’t know how to be satisfied. Should we separate, should we divorce? Pharaoh thinks that such people are really cheap and well behaved.

A man's responsibility is not just to earn money to support his family. Now many people say that you are a girl, don't worry about buying a house, don't worry about making money, just find a good man. It seems inexplicable that the responsibilities of the family are divided into the righteousness. Men should go out and work hard to support the family, and women should take care of the children's laundry, cook and serve their parents-in-law at home. I think this is a matter of course.

Society has been progressing, women have developed from the era of bound feet to driving a sports car all over the street, and the ladies who can never show their faces have become a powerful workplace. Women are developing at the speed of light from body to mind. The psychology of some men, from the machismo of thousands of years ago to today's intensifying straight male cancer, seems to have never been cured.

Well, now it's time to show Lao Wang's little pill, Lao Wang thinks when his wife's salary is higher than yours;

First of all, you have to secretly have fun for a few days and marry a superhuman daughter-in-law with super high added value;

Secondly, you have to thank her. Your woman gave up the life where she can go shopping, go shopping, and swipe your card. She shares the pressure of life with you with her thin shoulders, and pays off the mortgage with you, raises children, and is filial to the elderly. ;

The point is that you have to adjust your mentality, and you are unwilling to transform into a super warm male family cooking husband and a virtuous domestic helper, you can catch up and turn pressure into motivation, although you may not be able to fight back, at least you can do it if you are evenly matched;

The other is your mind. You must understand, tolerate, comfort and support. A woman with a big heart will be vulnerable, and a strong woman also needs the love and warmth of the family.