You think you are familiar with others, but they may not remember you
Xiaohui encountered some problems in life that he was unable to solve, so he thought of President Wang. Wang is always a friend of Xiaohui's classmate Xiaodong. Because of Xiaodong's relationship, they have eaten together many times. During this period, Xiaohui also communicated with President Wang many times, and President Wang always called him "brother". Although the two have long left contact information for each other, they have never communicated in private. Xiaohui dialed Mr. Wang's phone with confidence, and only said a few words. Mr. Wang said that he was busy and hung up. This made Xiaohui very disappointed. The topic we are going to talk about today is: You think you are familiar with others, but they may not remember you. Let's analyze it below.
- Intimacy in a dinner party is often just a courtesy
When strangers communicate, they are often very polite, always smiling, and their tone is as gentle as possible. This will make some people form a wrong understanding that others have a good opinion of them. After a few contacts, they thought they had become friends with each other. But if you pay attention to the dinner, you will find that everyone wants to make a good impression on others, so they all treat others with a good attitude, and they will say more close words after drinking. But keep in mind that a lot of the time it's just polite.
- There is a gap at the social level, don’t treat others as friends wishful thinking
Xiaohui's friend Xiaodong is relatively successful and owns two larger companies. The reason why the relationship with Xiaohui is not bad is because the two were at the same table when they were in school. President Wang is also a big boss and has a good relationship with Xiaodong. Although Xiaohui often eats with President Wang through Xiaodong, he did not realize that he and President Wang are not on the same level. Xiaohui is only the director of a certain department of a company, and it is difficult for him and Mr. Wang to communicate in terms of work and other aspects. Xiaohui thought that he had become friends with President Wang, but it was just wishful thinking. If it wasn't for his classmate Xiaodong, President Wang would not be able to sit with him at all.
- Don't complain about the reality of others, but strive to improve your social value
Speaking of which, there are bound to be people who say it's too realistic, but that's what it is. If you have not reached a certain height yourself, it is difficult to truly enter the circle of this height, even if someone pulls it. Don't complain that others are too realistic, because there are only so many places around everyone, and they all have to be reserved for more valuable people. If you want to have a more valuable circle, you should work hard to improve your social value. When you have real strength, no one will ignore you even if you don't speak up.