You chat with them enthusiastically in the WeChat group, but they still have a small group

Xiaolin has a circle of friends, there are more than a dozen people in the circle, everyone is very familiar with each other, and they are all good friends. More than a dozen people have set up a WeChat group. Usually, everyone chats and jokes in the group. Although we meet often, but with a group, we can communicate at any time.

Xiaolin's circle of friends came from high school classmates. Everyone had a good relationship in high school, and since then they have maintained more contact. Later, the work is also in the same city, and there are more opportunities to meet. After a while, I will come out to get together, drink some wine, and talk about life. Xiaolin feels very fortunate, it is good to have this group of friends.

Xiaolin is an active member of this WeChat group. Any new information will be shared in the group every day, and funny jokes and good articles will also be shared in the group. The usual life will also take the initiative to post in the group, and interact with everyone. For example, when I travel in a certain place, I will post some pictures of beautiful scenery in the group; when I eat in a certain place, I will also take photos of food to share. Even if you get a certificate of honor in the company, you will send it to the group to share the joy with everyone.

The group was very active at the beginning, and everyone actively spoke. In addition to Xiaolin, other people will also share their own lives. When someone sends a message, everyone will come out and interact. The atmosphere is friendly and welcoming. Some people say good morning every morning to wake everyone up; some people say good night every night to say goodbye to everyone. I also send some red envelopes from time to time, everyone is not trying to grab money, but just to be happy.

Later, the group gradually became less active. At first, he shared some content in the group as perfunctory, but later he was too lazy to do it. Sometimes no one in the group speaks for three or five days. Kobayashi understood that everyone was busy and had no time to chat. Although everyone doesn't post much, he still shares his life from time to time, but no one interacts with him. He didn't care either, and the days went by just like that.

One day, Xiaolin saw that several friends in the group were sharing the same content in the circle of friends, which was an advertisement for a friend's business. Although this friend did not let Xiaolin post it, Xiaolin also retweeted it with everyone. They are good friends, can help a little bit. Two days later, several friends reposted another content at the same time, which was an advertisement for another friend's business. Xiaolin also retweeted it. But there was a vague feeling that something was wrong.

Several friends reposting the same content at the same time must be negotiated, but why is no one negotiating with them? Xiao Lin was a little puzzled, but he didn't ask much. Now, no one has spoken in the WeChat group for several days. One night, a friend sent a message, but withdrew it again, and Xiaolin didn't see what was withdrawn.

A few days later, a friend finally proposed to have dinner together. A friend called and told Xiaolin the time and place, and Xiaolin went to participate on time. The dozen or so friends sat at a large table. A large table of dishes, a few bottles of wine. After chatting for a while, everyone started drinking. Xiaolin felt that he hadn't been with everyone for a while, so he drank a few more glasses. When I was drinking, a friend took a photo and said that I would send it to the group. Xiaolin opened his phone and looked at it, but he didn't see any photos from the group, so he posted a few photos to the group.

During the drinking period, the friends around Xiaolin held their mobile phones and laughed. He let Xiaolin look at the photos in the group. In the photo, a friend's action of nibbling on a chicken leg was particularly funny. But Xiaolin saw at a glance that this group was not his own group, because he didn't need to post such photos. He pretended to laugh while looking at his friend's phone. The name of the group is basically the same, but the number of people is displayed as "9". The number of people in Kobayashi's group is "14". Xiaolin understood immediately.

Xiaolin stopped drinking and said that he felt a little uncomfortable and had to go back early. Everyone held back a few words and let Xiao Lin leave. Xiaolin suddenly felt fooled. Thinking about the life clips he shared in the group, and the drinking photos he posted today, he felt very sad. No wonder no one in this group speaks anymore, no wonder no one responds when he posts pictures, it turns out that others have long abandoned this group, but he still sticks to this group. Others have long stopped treating themselves as people in the circle, and they foolishly treat everyone as a friend.

At night, Xiaolin was too sad to fall asleep. In a daze the next morning, he woke up suddenly feeling relieved. "Understanding" is the best ending. He took a picture outside the window and sent it to the group. He knew no one responded, but he knew it made sense to do so. I understand, the meaning of doing things will be different.