Social Rules: Your attitude largely determines how others treat you
Xiaowen is very angry today because of the attitude of those older colleagues. Xiaowen has always been kind to people in the company. She treats every older colleague with special respect. For the things that these older colleagues have explained, they will do their best to complete them. And the newcomers with her are not like Xiaowen, and they are treated equally with older colleagues. But these old employees put on airs for Xiaowen, and they criticized her at every turn. But they respect other new employees, but they do this to themselves, which makes Xiaowen very incomprehensible. The topic we are going to talk about today is: Your attitude largely determines the attitude of others towards you. Let's analyze it below.
- You have to put your position right and give full play to your value
Xiaowen has just joined the company, so he should respect those old employees. But don't let older employees misunderstand this respect, you respect them because they are older and more experienced, not because they have a higher status than you. When dealing with things at ordinary times, if the other party misunderstands this respect, you should give feedback in a timely manner. No matter what group you're in, the first thing you need to do is put yourself in the right place and know what to do. If you work hard to give full play to your own value, you will win the respect of more people.
- Don't be too humble, it will make others gain an inch
You have to respect others, but don't be overly humble. Some people mistakenly believe that respect is obedience and compliment. This will make the other person feel that your relationship should be like this, and he will think that he is qualified to point fingers at you. Anyone who treats you badly is what you are used to at the beginning, and your excessive humility makes him think he can do that. He will gain an inch because of this, and his disrespect towards you will gradually escalate. It is best to have a very bad attitude towards you.
- Your attitude tells how others can treat you
In the same position, being the same person, others may have very different attitudes towards you. For example, you are also doing printing and copying work in the office. You may be at the mercy of others when you are doing it, and when he is doing it, you may be asking for help from others. Your attitude tells what others can do to you. When others don't respect you at first, you must show your attitude, and you can't mess with it. Your attitude will make him dare not disrespect you in the future. But if you always put on an obedient and submissive attitude, no one will take you seriously.
Of course, how others treat you is largely determined by your strength. But in small ways, your posture largely determines how others treat you. Dear friends, do you agree with the views of this article? Let’s leave a message and exchange it.