Social Rules: You'd better not go to a dinner party where you call others without notifying you directly
This morning, the manager walked into the office and told everyone, "The supermarket at Xiaomei's house in the marketing department opened today. Xiaomei welcomes everyone to join us." Xiaohui thought that this was a happy event for his colleague's family, so he should go to join him, so he discussed with Xiao Wang. How much is the gift. Xiao Wang said and asked Xiaohui: "Did Xiaomei notify you?" Xiaohui said: "Xiaomei didn't notify you, didn't the manager notify everyone on behalf of Xiaomei?" Xiao Wang said: "Xiaomei called a lot of people specially. I got a call and didn't call us, so let's not go." Xiaohui also gave up the idea of going to participate.
The topic we are going to talk about today is: You better not go to the dinner where you call others without notifying you directly. Let's analyze it below.
- If a lot of people are notified on the phone and you are not notified, there may be no intention to let you go
Xiao Wang experienced such a situation once. A primary school classmate sent a message on WeChat, welcoming everyone to his birthday party. After he went, everyone else was surprised. Although he was politely entertained, the atmosphere at the scene was a little awkward. The message that the classmate sent in the group was just a courtesy, and by the way, I reminded the people who had been notified by phone, and did not intend to invite Xiao Wang. If other people’s dinner calls or WeChat invites a lot of people, but they don’t invite you directly, they may not plan to let you go.
- The unreasonable invitation method shows that the other party does not pay enough attention to you, and it doesn't matter if you go or not.
The other party made a special call to some people when the notification was made, and some people were notified by WeChat private chat, but to you, they just relayed it indirectly and in a large area. This shows that these types of people have different weights in the hearts of the dinner party organizers. Important people are specially invited, and unimportant people are notified in a large area. In the other party's social circle, you are a very inconspicuous existence, and after you go, you are just a foil. Since the other party did not invite you sincerely, it is best not to go.
- It may also be because you are not familiar with each other and the relationship has not reached the
Calling others and not directly notifying you may also be because you are not that familiar and the relationship is not yet that level. The relationship between Xiaomei and Xiaohui in the example at the beginning of this article should not be so close. Everyone may just work in the same company and do not deal much with each other. If you are specifically notified, it seems that it does not match the relationship between you. It will be embarrassing for you to go to a meal with such an unfamiliar person, so it is best not to go there.
If the other person is indirectly notified to most people, you can decide whether to go or not based on your relationship. If the other party calls a lot of people without notifying you directly, you'd better not go. Dear friends, what do you think of this article, please leave a message to exchange it.