Social Rules: You are so easygoing, of course no one cares about you
In social situations, many people try to be easy-going in order to maintain a friendly image. There is always a smile on his face, and he pretends not to care if others are offended, and he is busy echoing what others think. However, after a long time, I found that this did not gain the love and respect of others, but gradually became the air in social interaction. The topic we are going to talk about today is: You are so easy-going, of course others will not care about you. Let's analyze it below.
- You've always been so easy-going, others think you're easy-going
Xiaohui is an easy-going person. Whenever someone in the WeChat group notified the dinner, Xiaohui was the first to reply "received", and attended on time, never absent. But he found that others did not reply, and the time to participate was not punctual. But the host of the dinner party always calls those people. As for Xiaohui, others think that he should reply as soon as possible and attend on time, otherwise he will have an opinion on the organizer. You've always been so easy-going, and others are used to it and take it for granted that you're easy-going.
- Excessive accommodating is disrespect for oneself
Moderate easy-going can indeed increase one's intimacy and leave a good image for others. But if you are blindly easy-going, it is disrespectful to yourself. You obviously have your own attitude, but you are always accommodating others. After a long time, others will think that you have no attitude at all. How others treat you is because your actions tell others that they can treat you the same way. Being overly accommodating is disrespecting oneself.
- You can be easygoing, but you must have principles
In today's fierce competition, being easy-going can set up less opponents, which has a certain effect on the development of social interaction. In social networking, you should adjust your strategy based on the environment you are in. You can be easy-going, but you must have your own principles and bottom lines. When others touch your bottom line, be sure to clearly state your attitude. Have the courage to give color to the malicious behavior of others. When ignored by others, show yourself in time. You are easygoing, but brave at the same time.