Social Rules: Why Do Others Always Not Reply to Your WeChat Messages?

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A lot of the work of Xiaohui's company is carried out in the WeChat group, and everyone can communicate in the group if you have any situation or questions. But this made Xiaohui very distressed. Because Xiaohui asked questions in the group, the other party always didn't answer, as if he didn't see it. Asking again and getting the same result makes Xiaohui feel very embarrassed. Xiaohui chose to chat privately, but the other party still did not reply. Xiaohui has encountered such things many times in his life. The topic we are going to talk about today is: Why do people keep not replying to your WeChat messages? Let's analyze it below.

  1. Your sense of existence is relatively weak, and it is easy to be ignored by the other party

There are many people in the WeChat group, and sometimes the other party cannot reply. At this time, he will find important people to reply, and the unimportant ones just put them aside. If you don't get a reply, it means that you may be a person with a weak sense of presence, and it is easy to be ignored by others. This may have something to do with your character or ability. Your personality may be too conservative to express yourself more. Your ability is not outstanding enough to be recognized by everyone. You can make some efforts, some changes, and try to gain more attention.

  1. Your question is too general or should not be asked, so that the other party cannot answer

Sometimes people don't answer your question, the problem lies in the question you asked. Maybe your question is too general for the other person to answer. For example, if you ask "how can I do my best work", such a question is too big, and the other party does not know which angle to answer. Or you should not ask questions. For example, if you ask a girl how old you are, the other person will generally not answer you. You can first see if the question you are asking is appropriate and specific.

  1. It has more social value in reality and will be valued online only

In daily social life, many people also encounter Xiaohui's problems. He greeted the other party warmly, but the other party did not reply to him. The main reason for this is that your own social value is not enough. People don't want to start chatting with you at all, and they don't want to waste time on you. If you are a person with a lot of social value, the other party will definitely respond enthusiastically and approach. The attitude of others towards you on WeChat depends entirely on your social value in reality. Work hard to improve your social value, so that you will not encounter the embarrassment of others ignoring you.

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