Social rules: Whether you are important in the network circle, you will know by looking at these three points
Socializing is compulsory for everyone and very important to everyone. Many people are very concerned about their position in the social circle, for fear of being alienated or ignored by others. On this issue, it is useless to make random guesses, and there must be a basis for reference. Today, the topic we are going to talk about is: whether you are important in the network circle, you will know by looking at these three points. Let's talk about it one by one.
- What activities are in the circle, whether others discuss with you first
Whether it is important to see yourself in a circle depends on whether you grasp the information earlier than others. This is mainly reflected in the activities of the circle. If there is an event in the circle, such as a party, will the organizer communicate with you in advance. If I communicate with you, it means that your opinion is very important and your status in the circle is also very high. If you're just being told to go to an event, that just means you're a dispensable character.
- Sort out interpersonal relationships to see if you are the connection point between different circles
You can also calm down and sort out your relationships. See where you stand at the intersection of different circles. If you are at the intersection of two circles, and the information of both circles needs you to transmit, then you are important and irreplaceable in both circles. If your communication with another circle needs to be done through someone else, then you are not an important connection point. The more connection points you are in, the more important you are; the less important you are, the less important you are.
- When you speak in front of people, you don’t have a lot of scruples
Another simple method is to see if you have a lot of scruples when you speak in front of people. If you are important and dominant in a circle, you tend to speak without too much scruples, because generally others will listen to you. And if you are afraid of offending one person when you speak in front of people, and you are afraid that the other person is unwilling, it means that your status in the circle is not high. People who are important in the circle tend to speak loudly and have clear opinions; people who are not important tend to speak in a low voice and have vague opinions.
If you want to know how important you are in your social circle, look at the above three points and you will know. If you are very important, you should cherish this honor; if you are not so important, don't be discouraged, you can work hard in a targeted manner. Dear friends, do you agree with the views of this article? Let’s leave a message and exchange it.