Social rules: What kind of WeChat groups cannot join?
With the rise of the social economy, many people are adding WeChat friends in large numbers. They believe that the more WeChat friends and WeChat groups, the more opportunities there are. As a result, everyone has a variety of WeChat groups on WeChat. But there are some WeChat groups you'd better not join. This is the topic we are going to talk about today: what kind of WeChat group cannot join? Let's analyze it below.
- Groups that do not belong to their own circle
Some WeChat groups belong to the inner circle. Some people really want to join such a group, thinking that joining is equal to joining this small circle. actually not. You may be pulled into the group because you have a good relationship with someone in this circle, but it does not mean that you are accepted in this circle. Sometimes when you join a group, you will make others feel scruples when chatting, embarrassing others and embarrassing yourself. Sometimes, in order to avoid chatting with you, others will create another small group.
- Groups that do not match their identity and location
Xiaohui is the boss of a company. When he learned that some young people among the company's employees had a group, he asked to join. He wanted to get closer to everyone, but he found that since he joined, very few people in this active group have spoken anymore. There is another situation where you want to join a high-end group, although you are not high-end. After you really join, you will find that this high-end group will gradually no longer be high-end. You don't want to join a group that doesn't match your identity and position, that won't really improve yourself.
- WeChat group of those idlers
There are always some people who are very busy, and there are always some people who are bored and panic. For those WeChat groups established by idlers, you'd better not join. The purpose of their group is for entertainment, and they make all kinds of boring jokes in the group every day, and sometimes play games. Even if it's an occasional meeting, it's just drinking and chatting. After you join such a group, you will gradually be influenced by these idlers and waste your time in small talk.